| Long post, complicated situation, includes lots of details.
So, just started my second year of studying at university, I was a part of a group of people organised to show the new students around, but mostly just getting drunk and having fun with them, anyway, there's one of these girls that I'm rather interested in.
So, of course I'm in a sort of natural dominant relationship with this girl since she's new to uni, I'm 2nd year, supposed to know stuff and cool pretty much as a premise. Now, I talked with lots of the new girls of course during the intro-week, and most of them have seemed rather interested, but one of the prettiest of them, HB8 or 9 I guess,I can't figure out:
During the week, I pretty much only talked to her one night, when we were both drunk. We had a lot of shared interests (or she lied... Don't think so tho) - piano, literature, etc., not necessarily a good thing I guess, but we talked for a rather long time alone, outside. I didn't feel like she was giving out any IOIs really, at least not obvious ones, except for talking to me exclusively for an hour or so. We even went for a walk in the neighbourhood to look for a place to buy some more booze, closed tho. Anyway, we went inside as it was getting cold, went upstairs to the party, talked, some other girls approached me and I started bantering around with them instead. At some point, I ended up dancing heftily with and going home with (f-closed too) some new student from another institute tho, so they're not acquainted. I'm not sure whether HB noticed this or has found out since.
When we were talking that night, we were both drunk and talked about lots of different stuff, like I asked her what she thought of her 2nd year instructors, sort of jokingly tried to pair her up with a few of them, she just responded something like she thought we were all good-looking and cool, and asked what I thought of the new girls, I named like 2 or 3 girls plus her that I thought were hot, in short, I think I made it pretty obvious to this girl during our talk that I was interested in her - anyway, one of the things I remember telling her last, when I walked away was something like, "You're not really my type anyway" and then sort of petting her hair in a "sorry puppy" way, to which she just blurted out "you're not my type either". I might've sounded too serious, but anyway, I guess I felt I needed to do something to make her unsure of what I felt about her.
After this I don't see or talk to her for a week. (I guess I should've tried a #-close or so, but oh well). Yesterday, there was a bar-thing for our entire institute starting early afternoon, lasting the entire day and night. I was having fun with my friends and getting drunk again, but talked to her twice at least: Stood outside, just chilling, making conversation with her and another girl. I had her aside for a short time, I told her jokingly that one of the best moments of my week was when she burst out literally yelling her favourite german 1800-author, she laughed, blabla, then much later, I was talking with a friend and out of the sudden, she poked me, we bantered for a short while and she said something like "We should have like, a Goethe-day soon to meet and talk". Didn't talk more with her that night, which was yesterday.
Sorry for the long post here, but I felt those details were needed - I really can't figure this girl out. By the things I've described above, she seems interested, but she isn't really giving me the physical IOIs that I get from some girls. Maybe she's a bit more shy, (doesn't seem like she's a shy kinda girl tho), or am I just reading too much into things here? Does she just see me as some kinda potential friend? We've talked about things related to sex etc., and I think I've done a pretty good job teasing and keeping things interested, I can't see myself be friend-zone-potential with the way things have gone really but... This girl confuses me. Maybe I've been too drunk/blind to notice obvious signs, maybe she has just been acting like she would with any other guy she isn't interested in. Need the enlightenment here.
Also - in a bit less than a month we (1st and 2nd year, about 70 people) have a trip to a cabin-thing out in the woods, which is basically two days of partying and having fun. Obviously a great place to get things moving with this girl, but then again, waiting for a month will kill off all tension and give her plenty of time to meet other guys.
Summary: Is she interested, and if so, how should I day-2 her?
Edit: I can msg her on facebook to set up day-2, since I don't have her #.
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