Hello everyone.

I've got into a situation where I can't tell if I am really doing right.
I was kissing with a girl I knew a lot before. I always felt the attraction from her side and can't tell that I didn't feel the same. I just didn't want to make anything serious with her as we both are very different people(different characters). Also we are studying and we meet almost every day.

Once we somehow managed to stay alone at a party and after talking and listening I initiated a kiss. I've really been thinking about that because everytime I kissed/bitted/licked her cheek, neck, ear, shoulder she made a very deep breath. After half and hour kissing I said that we must return back. As we return I separated as well as she did the same.

Later she asked if she could sleep with me as it was a foreign place. Yeah I am not dumb and I know what does that mean:)).

As we continued cuddling in the bed that night the same story continued. Every time I touched her harder or licked somewhere she looked very aroused, breathed deeply. But the ultimate question to me is - wasn't it a fake?
I know that sometimes it's really cool when I touch somewhere or so, but I don't believe that with every different kiss of mine she responded so hot.

Cheers

Um... why would she be faking it. You should have just ramped up the escalation ladder and gone to fuck her.

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Thank you for response

Fucking her was not my goal. Even though I knew all the roads are available. The situation was unpleasant for sex, because we were at a party with a lot of other people all walking and passing around. Everywhere else it was cold due to the late evening. I didn't desperate for sex so to sacrifice the comfort we had . And.. I didn't and I don't have any plans towards her, except I know that we will meet again day by day after summer.

Why should be faking that? Well, the only idea which gets into my mind is um.. I don't know how to call it, maybe to fit me, not to lose me or so.
I have a natural interest in the situation as if I can't detect if I am making good kino, I will be screwed in the future.

I am 20 so I consider myself still quite young. I want to learn as much as possible, and I want to be able to know the girl is really aroused by me and when she is faking her emotions, because later, anyway, it will come to the light and I will be screwed.

Generally the only girls who usually fake reactions are strippers, and escorts, because they get paid to make you think that they like you.

As for the girl, I just don't see why it would make sense for her to fake a reaction in this instance. The only thing I could think of is that she would be a gold digger, but I don't know her, so I won't make assumptions.

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if she breathes deeply and aroused, that's a great sign! It means that she's realy horny. girls breath often heavily when you kiss or lick her in the neck, or touch her on many places, because it has an intens feeling

if a girl breathes deeply while make-out, it actualy makes me more horny than when she screames. screaming might be faking, but breathing ... never!

if you just ran hard for over an hour, you're breathing deeply ... are you then faking it?

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Yeah I could fake for a few seconds .
The answers are really great, maybe I've found a problem where there was none.
It just seemed a bit strange as I havent been in a situation where almost every action I take(kissing, licking, pressing or so) caused so hot reaction.