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PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 11:45 pm 
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I am very confused after first try last night. Need help because I have doubts. Yesterday I went to a Bar (kind of disco/club) and did many aproaches with many different openers and everything worked fine (not perfect - but I was enought happy for first time) I got kisses too. To increase my value I used trick with light leg touch when passed wimen. I used this trick many times like 40-50 times, maybe more (i was continuing doing that all night) even I was talking to my friend when her girlfriend was with him (they were face to face) and I've done to her that light touch her leg and I didn't look at her but she did at me after (and I could see her face - she didnt know whats going on). I am quiet good dancer but in the past nobody wanted dance with me but my friends, till last night. They told me that I dance very well. I was dancing with maybe 20-30 girls that night. I was swaping one by one, just for practising. I used the trick with bum to bum, works very well. And...... after 2 hours a security man approached me and say that I have to leave the Bar (disco/club) and the reason was that somebody didnt like me. So he showed me Exit and that was the end of the first try. And question is what happened? What I did wrong? Maybe I danced with wrong girl, maybe somebody (security? there are cameras so if you got too much attention they observe you what are you doing and they know what you do - they knew what I am doing), maybe I touch a girl and she complained to somebody there? But nobody complained to me or tell me hey guy stop it or dont dance with her anymore or something like that. What should I thinking? What should I do when security man approached me and told me what he told?

I am not native English speaker so expect not proper english. I did my best to describe the problem. I would be very happy to get any help. Please !

Did you guys have problem like that?


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 2:04 pm 
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Reading your post it seems to me that because you were having success and alot of attention off women some of the AMOGS were getting jealous and the security guards asked you to leave for your own safety incase one of them confronted you.

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40-50 times sounds like literally half the club, you cant just "leg touch" every girl in the bar, i mean you can but, why not find a target and stick to her, security probably thought you were on extacy pills or something.

nothing wrong here, but my advice would be pick a target next time and a few girls to fall back on if it doesn't work out

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I agree 40-50 times is overkill! Someone must have complained!

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there's not necessarily anything wrong with casting a wide net (although maybe 40 is a bit much), but make sure you leave every interaction with the woman feeling comfortable (even post leg touch). especially in a small club, WOMEN TALK (among themselves, and sometimes to security)

Humor can be very useful in these situations to keep up your alpha status without seeming too threatening.

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You are doing a good job. There is nothing wrong you did that night. Keep sarging the way you do and push the boundaries.

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I agree 40-50 times is overkill! Someone must have complained!
Who the hell complains to security over light leg touches?

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 11:32 pm 
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lol you might've gone a bit overboard but what you experienced is a hater...hating. Love it , it means your doing something right 8)


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Hey mate I know what happened almost 100%, i work in club promotions and management and we have a word for people that have so much energy..."incident"

basically you were drawing too much highly sexualised attention, and it wad only a matter of time before some drunk amog saw you touched his girlfriends leg and punched you out. High energy guys are never the aggressors, but you might have gotten the shit beaten out of you and then suddenly we get sued.

So we male sure that we remove the problem befor it becomes one. It would be impossible to remove every amog in the club, so out you go, odds are nobody complained except for someone in my position.

I would reccommend toning it right down and only doing the leg touch on girls you've semi-isolated.

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 Post subject: Hay guys thanks a lot.
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Stand Up - thanks. I probably looked this way. Too much energy and too much attention I realise that right now. So next time I have to be more calm.

Thanks everyone for helping me.


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Who the hell complains to security over light leg touches?
Girls that don't want to be touch by guys they don't know. As well as guys that are there with their girlfriend and see some guy touch her on purpose.


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