I have a girl that is into me and wants to have sex, but im not sure how to move things forward to sex!

Does anyone have and lines, past experience of easy routines to go from her just being at your place hanging out to sex?

Many thanks

yp

rule 1:dont be on here in front of her
2: the push too hard or you will get lmr
3: try a neck massage the neck it the unwritten erogenous zone make sure your hands are warm
4: move down her back
then try for a kiss
THEN TEASE WITH ORAL THEN ESCALATE

if any questions just ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, you already now she wants sex. So you shouldn't have any fear of rejection. Ofcourse, you shouldn't just start riping her clothes off once she enters the room (unless you head enough foreplay BEFORE she enters the appartment/house/room..).


Now, when she comes inside, you should act like it's totally normal that you guys are going to have sex. She probebly had sex before, and with that comes a certain process.

Tell her to light the candles, while you pick out a nice bottle of whine.

Then let her pick out some music, from your music collection. Though make sure you only let her pick the music that'll set the mood just right. Say something like "choose some nice music for us. Make sure it's only from the top half of the rack".

Sit close to her, do kino escalation. Like what crazyoney2k said, give her a massage. Make it a bit sensual and progress to making out. And work on from there.


You're letting her help you create the mood you want to be in, that'll lead to sex. This way, it'll be alot more natural for her. And it's alot easier for you to start things up, once the mood is already set.


If you get LMR, there are a couple of things you can do. Though you said she wanted sex, so LMR won't be a big problem I think.

- freeze her out. Stop doing what you were doing, turn on the lights and turn the tv on. She'll still be horny, and starts to beg for more.
- When she says 'we should stop', agree with her but keep going on. Her: "we should stop" you: "Yeah, you're right. Isn't this hot?".. and keep going on.


Cheers,
NAB

Personally I wouldn't do anything involving candles or wine, no offense to Nab but it's just not my style. However make sure your place is clean and tidy, and leave the music on in the background.

Your foreplay should begin far before you get into the bedroom. You want to be using kino all night, using push pull as well - it's all about building the sexual tension. Most guys would cheerfully just rip her clothes off and get down to business, but as said by Nab and Crazyoney this will lead to LMR. You want to continue the teasing, but this time in a sexual way. Massage her, let your hands wander, but stop before you go down her underwear. Kiss around her thighs but stop before you do anything sexual. This can be difficult as it requires some restraint, but she'll be wanting to rip your clothes off because of the sexual tension, and this pretty much eliminates LMR.

Hope it all goes well man, keep us posted.

~Deebo

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dude dont go thinking inside your head...
"Im thinking inside my head, what should I say now? I really want sex, what line should I use"
Your basically using a line in the outcome it gives you sex. Flip the script, its the Girl who should be wanting sex, make her earn it.

for me anyway, it doesnt feel natural to ask for sex, or even use a line hinting sex to the girl... it usually just happens..

but try making a statement.. "Hey you look really tense today, why is that. you really need to loosen up, here let me show you" dont even let her ask you why she feels tesne... just go into it give her a back massage... get her in a comfortable state and start making out..

hope that helps

hopefully you can give us a lay report??

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Umm.... If she wants to have sex with you, it should not be so hard... Start with a kiss, and the magic should happen by itself if both of you are into this.

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I just meant, do what you normally do when you're about to have sex while you were in a relationship. Candles and wine are just the 2 typical things you see in a 'romantic' set. If that's not your thing, then do whatever you normally do.

Just make her help you set the mood.

Building sexual tension after the mood is set, is indeed the right thing to do (and the most logical, if you'd ask me)