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she is probably getting the vibe you don't care much
Mortal, Thanks for the comment. I guess you are right. My text was too short and too broad. It made it seem like I didn't care much.
So this what I did next:
I sent her a message saying I would really like to hang out, and that I was going to a bar with a group of friends, asking if she wanted to come. She apologized for not answering the last msg, she said that she was out of town (she had gonne home to visit her family), that it was too bad we couldn't meet up, and asking if I wanted to go for drink/lunch/party/whatever next week.
I'm thinking I might have already screwed this up. Allright, she wants to do something next week, but on the other hand she was not very precise about it and she hadn't answered my first message (and maybe, just maybe, she was lying about beeing out of town). Also, that conversation was friday and I still haven't heard from her. I don't want to call her up again and get turned down for the 3rd time. Besides, that might seem kind of needy if I go after her again.
Anyways, I'm guessing I need to make the right moves now if I still want the girl.
There is a party tomorrow, and I'm not sure if I should invite her or just hope to meet her by chance in the case she goes on her own.
any comments are always helpful. thanks all