Hello.
Iv read the forum for quite a while now and I think its time for the first post and problem.
First let Me say that Im quite a popular guy,I got lots of friends(girl and boys,not talking sexual) and Im kinda loved.
Iv read The Game and half of the Mystery method in the past month,And liked the ideas and I wanna try it out in My own life.
I gotta say that im not unsuccseful with girls,but not succsesful as much as I wanna be..Im not some ugly guy but Im not an model..Id rank Myself as solid 7,and 7.5~ at good days.
Untill now I tried being nice and funny to girls,falling into their traps like most guys and got some girls,some not.
My question is like that,How can I,after 17 years of people knowing me as the nice funny guy,Change the way people look at me into the funny,cool,cocky wanted guy? is it too late? If not,Please post some tips how You would do that.
I already got like 5~ girls since I finished reading the books,but Still people look at Me the same..I wanna change that Image.
Thanks alot for the help,Really need it and sorry if its the wrong place to post and for all the typos
WhoYou.

Hey Who
you have found the right place to post

I’m new to the forum but not to women and not to being the dude that everyone likes. You really need to start by changing your attitude and your level of confidence before you can change that of others, I guess many would call it your inner game, this may not be exactly what you are looking for http://www.bristollair.com/inner-game.html but it could be a step in the right direction.
It is hard to step out of any stereotype but it can be done, which is what I assume you are trying to do. I used to be well liked but not for my sex appeal.

I was the school captain and Dux (highest score leaving school) for my year, but wasn't given the attention of the many girls which I hoped for. For me developing a quick witted sense of humor and a natural charm was the cornerstone to my new found success and popularity, though I kept many of the same friends, they viewed me in a different light.
I found that joining different social groups were you can establish ANY social identity without pressure was a key aspect. I associated with as many different social groups as possible.
Though this did take some time!
I soon established my self as the cool sexy guy that everyone respected and wanted to talk to . My primary social group was Venturers, you are probably not familiar with it but it is basically an older age group to Scouting (if u still don’t know it jump on Wikipedia) it is basically like minded people doing a bunch of activities and having regular meetings and larger gatherings several times a year (a great place to meet new people and try pick up as many HB’s as you can).

So my suggestion is find a group which best suits the personality you wish to have /be more like and spend as much time as you can with them. I am sure some forum members will disagree because this is not exactly sticking to the "Game", and I'm sure their argument is valid, but I have found that it is easy to have various influences rub off on you. E.G spending time in a foreign country and adopting part of their accent, you don’t notice at first but eventually you have it. It is a slow process and can go unnoticed for some time, this way you still retain all the same friends/social network and they become used to your new and improved self. Alternately find a book/move/T.V show with a character you want to be more like and closely follow the character which appeals to you most, watch and read over and over again and you will soon notice you use the same mannerisms or speech patterns, its very weird and can be easily broken but it is a quick and superficial way to change.

I hope this was been of some help and if it’s not what you wanted post again!

Peace

Simmer

First of all,Thanks!
Now to the point.
Im hanging out with most popular people from 2 highschools that uselly always in the same party.I mostly get comments like Your cool and funny from girls,but thats only leaving me with their facebook and number,but burnt from sexual way.
Its not like Im not populr and wanna be one,Its that I am but wanna be way more popular with the girls.
The problem is that since Im well loved by most cool grps I got a name of the funny and cool person,but not the playa..
so how do I change that after everyone knows me and I hang out with the same girls mostly who already know me?
I heard something about lieing about girls,but thats not me and ill never do that.

Thanks,And hope to hear from You again.
WhoYou.