Hi guys...

I need some help...what do you do when you perceive that the girl wants you to leave?

What about when she directly says "Go away!", or "Leave me alone!" (especially after some chatting)? It is evident that the mistake was made before...but i mean once reaching this point, how do you leave without DLV in case you really want to leave? Any way to fix this situation in case you want to stay?

I will appreciate some examples


Masternight

Well you shouldv'e thrown out a false time constraint so you can eject at anytime. And if she seems like she doesn't want to talk to you anymore or flat out says it, then you should still be nice about it and not bitter towards her. Not only will that show a DHV but it will give you a reason to get the fuck out!

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-Crain Diesel

BOATS AND HOES!!!

If she goes "Go Away" and means it...

You may have miscalibrated somewhere along the line,
Eject, and move on as gracefully as you can

Important, as C-Diesel stated, Don't flip or get bitter, just move on.


learn in retrospect though
look back or try to notice where it went wrong

The only time recently that I can remember being told to "Go away" was when I miscalibrated and teased a little too much.

This girl obviously spent a lot of time on her hair (and I really did find it very attractive). I opened her and said something along the lines of, "That is the cutest cowlick I've every seen in my entire life."

Afterward, when I saw her, I'd call her cowlick. I was attempting to prompt her to offer me her name, but I was heavily intoxicated, and probably came off as a dick.



I agree with C-Diesel in that you should move on gracefully. I personally won't verbalize an FTC (incongruence), but I might body rock if I feel it's necessary.

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Well, you probably showed too much interest, broke the three second rule, lost value somehow or just hit a super bitch shield. That happens. Eject, go for the next one and learn from your mistakes.

My wing and I approached a 2 set tonight. His target loved him. I was dancing just outside of arm's reach, facing the set, waiting for my target to quit texting.

He was commenting her on a wristband she was wearing (she subcommunicated a fair amount of interest), but the obstacle took a small break from texting and waved him goodbye, then actually said goodbye when he ignored her and kept talking to her friend, who really didn't seemed to mind his presence. He's one of the coolest dudes I've met, but isn't physically the most sexy man. (Personality wise... if only I could put him in a chick's body. )

The obstacle was acting totally superficial - or was in a really shitty mood or something.



Shit happens sometimes, and it really is out of your hands then.



EDIT: Relecting on that, I realized that ejecting from that set was the best thing that could've happened. We ejected, popped right into another set, had a blast, bounced, made out with our respective targets, danced, made out some more, had a blast.... (Logistics prevented an extraction, but it was a lot more fun than dealing with HB_ChipOnShoulder.)

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It really depends on the tone of how they say it. Because I had girls playfully tell me to go away when they really didn't mean it. And others that old me seriously to go away.