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Regardless of if she has a boyfriend or not, if she is in the club without a guy, then she is game (rare exceptions for married women).
A woman only tells a guy she has a boyfriend when she wants to get rid of him, period. You are probably coming on way too strong or she is not comfortable enough with you. Like jay said, don't look for a line to respond, look in yourself for a deep level change.
I never ever get the 'I have a boyfriend' objection any more. I also never get the 'I'm a lesbian/we're lesbians' rejection because I'm comfortable, congruent, confident, humorous, and likable enough that they want to keep me around. Work on being, not doing.
The thing is, I get that pretty much as soon as I approach. I'm tall, thin and I know I'm not ugly, I've never dated below an 8 (even as a complete AFC) and fat girls and gay guys love me lol. It's just the whole "I have a boyfriend" line has gotten so played out I want a concrete way to shoot that down. I like the "I have a pet at home too" one and the "hamster" lol. Anyone else have any good ones?