a girl at school... can't get her off my mind.

what to do?

this is called putting her on a pedestal. The best thing for you to do is to game other girls. When you focus too much on just one, you will start doing this. Also, try to see her flaws and imperfections, this will get you to see she is no better then anyone else.

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Sarge her?

doesn't belong in this section.

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Sarge her. what you think this websites for????
V1V

The best solution for this.. is to go meet more girls.. and get more women into your life. All of a sudden... the problem goes bye bye.

If you need more help... feel free to PM me =]

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Sarge your balls off. Do NOT NOT NOT sarge her. She needs to be taken down off that pedestal you have put her on before you can effectively game her. Go out and meet other women so that she no longer seems as important to you. You will never win your one-itis.

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haha could this topic be anymore confusing for the author? he is being told to do 2 very different things about his situation!

look man, i would be inclined to say first things first: do you want a relationship or just a night with her. then decide if you want to immediately have a relationship or slowly build it by being friends first. i would say get to know her as a really flirty friend (for a relationship at least), then when your ready and sure you want her go for it 100%.

i know this isnt the classic PUA way, but dude you go to school with her so you get the luxury of getting more than just an open, a 5 min conversation, and a number or k close. you get as much time as you want to build this.

good luck buddy!

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Ok, sounds like your standard case of oneitis. Simply put, don't let this feeling consume you, and who you are. I had a bad case of oneitis for a long time (talking a couple of years here) and when it was at it's peak, while I won't divulge everything, I will say that I was aggressive to people even friends/family, wasn't eating properly, and generally never in a good mood. Now I don't expect you to get that bad (there are worse things that happened but like I said, not gonna mention here) but you want to be aware on the effect this feeling takes upon you and how you express it. There are 2 ways to express it, positively and negatively. Negatively would be the way that I and many others have done as I described above, or on the flip side you can use it as an "excuse" to go out and meet new people, take up a hobby for example learn to play an instrument or whatever. Use the time you would spend thinking about this chick constructively to improve yourself and your life.

Also I just this second read Shatter's post. Very good point, decide what you want from this first and take it from there, personally I say if you want a one night stand, let it go and do as I said above, in other words, something else. If you want a relationship then sarge away, though I'd suggest taking an extra few seconds to think about what you'll say everytime you are about to say something to her. When I've had oneitis in the past or going after a specific girl that I already know, I tend to speak before I think, many guys I know have done this aswell and one monsterous hiccup/lapse in thought can ruin it.

Ok I'm rambling really badly now and spouting nonsense, I'll stop.

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