Here is a ton of good advice on this subject that I just got in a recent newsletter. If you like it, PM me your email and I can hook you up with a subscription.
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I've seduced women through texts and have personally taught other guys how to do the same thing.
Women are seduced mentally more than anything else. Even in your face to face interactions with them, it's a mental game, mostly. Hence, texting game. The trick is to take her on a very short mental journey while she reads your text. Then, have her anticipating the next one to come . . .
When you start texting a girl, you should have already opened her, and have at least SOME rapport with her, or some base to start from.
Obviously not much info can be elaborated on within a text, so you have to compact everything. This is good. This means you have to learn to get your point across within a tiny space. This also means you can leave her hanging on certain points. This leads to further seduction, which women absolutely love.
One key here is to work on creating powerful images in her head with just a few words or characters in a text. There is a fine line here. Details are good, and girls LOVE the details of a seduction. Yet, you don't want to give away too many details too quick, especially if you want to stretch the seduction out over several texts, which is what you DO want to do.
On the one hand, you need to paint clear, and at TIMES explicit word pictures over the texts to build the imagery in the mind of the target. This will cause her to be focused on YOU and what you are leading her into. She will literally be waiting on the other end for what's coming next . . . all the while waiting to see YOU in person to fulfill these mental images FOR REAL.
On the other hand, you don't want to give away every detail because you want to keep her hanging, waiting for more. You WANT to build the anticipation in her. To put it bluntly, you want to make her wet . . . and KEEP her wet throughout the day, or whatever time period you're texting her the seduction.
You're probably thinking, where is the balance? Well, as I said, it's a fine line. In essence, you begin to paint the picture, then stop just short of fulfilling it. And, you can repeat this process again and again. You can build her up, let her hang, even let her drop just a bit (but not too much), build her back up, let her hang, etc. And don't worry, her mind is already progressing beyond the next text that you send, but she still wants to see the next text. She wants to see what YOU have on YOUR mind for her. What YOU want to do WITH her and TO her.
A note here. I said above that you can let her drop just a bit. Now, if you were face to face seducing her, you could let her completely drop for a short time and pick her back up. Over texting, it's a different dynamic. You need to be aware of that.
So, here's the deal. With each and every text, you build her . . . slowly . . . yet not completely . . . just a bit at a time. You don't have to use the entire space available for each text either. You leave her wanting more with each text. Leave her having the urge to check her phone every minute for the next text to see where you are going with it. With each additional text you build, just a bit more, on what the last text was. The texts are also spaced out, NOT one right after the other.
You don't want to be desperate, needy, or clingy in ANY interaction with your target. This is no exception.
Now that you have an idea of the seduction done through texting, let's talk briefly about other gaming through texting.
Texting is, at it's core, communication. Which means, what you would say to a girl in person, you SHOULD say to her through texting. Your personality needs to come across so that you are congruent whether in person or not. Now, sure, in person, or on the phone, voice tones and body language and other factors are taken into account that you can't see through texting. Well, that's where smilies come into play. Believe it or not, smilies do actually help to carry the general tone of the comment across.
Just as in person, you would want her to take a part in the convo, you should also expect that through texting too. Which means, you don't send her a dozen texts without her responding to something. If you do that, you are seriously out of luck with that particular girl. You need to flush her and move on, period, NOW.
Your texts should be interesting, just as your face to face conversing should be interesting. With that in mind, she will WANT to respond to your texts. That shows IOI's on her part. That shows you where she stands, that she is interested and you aren't wasting your time.
And, just as with threads you start, stop, or snip in person, you can and should do that through texts as well. It serves the same purpose as doing it face to face.