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Hey guys!
I wanted to ask some questions here.
What are your thoughts on being a player and the negative karma one may create for themselves doing so?
Now, granted you can be a total shitty person when dating multiple girls at once. Of course lying about it is the main one. I feel this would be the main reason bad karma, if ones believes in such a thing would come from.
Ok done with that... interested in your replies..
Moving on....
What are we actually getting when we play girls to minimize said karma? ^^^
So you don't lie to a girl and you inform her that you have multiple other partners.. and the other girls know it as well. Is this so great? I mean what sort of person would allow themselves to not be the only significant in a persons life? Of course I feel the types of women being obtained here are players themselves.. So it shouldn't matter right?
What is the point?
I'm sure all of this crap just reeks of someone who hasn't dated multiple women at one time, and it is the case. However, when the opportunity arises I feel immensely bad about it. Well I guess it did since I actually had feelings for the person it happened with.
Hey new to the forum
I am a Buddhist and I believe in Karma, I really do. I have been also a kind of pua for 2 years and seduced probably more than my share of girls.
The way I understand karma will depend mainly on your intention, if your intention is -like me- to just have fun and never do anything harmful, I don't see the problem with it, yes some girls may get attached but you know what ? They handle the truth very easily...Most of the time. I know myself, I make no promises, ever.
However yes sex has its own karma, like attachment etc, something else to deal with I guess...as a dedicated PUA. I find non attachment winner on many levels myself.
My 0.02$.