Back in february I managed to turn a girl I met in a pub into a fuckbuddy. We started out dating, but at some point I made it clear that I didn't want a relationship, and against my expectations she felt exactly the same. We were having sex for a few months and I notice that during that time I was less motivated to take action when going out with friends because I knew I could always text her for a lay.

Then, in june, she ''broke up'' with me because she felt like she was a relationship person and that we needed to stop in order for her to properly look for a real boyfriend. What I replied basicly came down to ''ok, good luck'', and we didn't speak for a few months until last week. She texted me out of the blue, chatted for a bit and then she came over again.

Now at the moment I would like to find a girl to settle down with, which is not her obviously. But I'm afraid her presence might ruin my motivation again, but on the other hand it might help me becuase it makes me less greedy. What's your view on this?

TLDR: How does having a f*ckbuddy influence your game? Does it motivate you or makes you lazy?

"Every action ones takes should move them closer to their goal." - Machiavelli.

Ask yourself, what is your goal and does fucking this girl bring you closer to it? You then have your answer.

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Well the question I'm asking here, based on an observation that it might be hindering me from my goal, is if I could use it to bring me closer to my goal.

On top of that I'm also interested in how other people think about this.

You have to be the one to tell us that your fuckbuddy is hindering you from your goal. To me, it sounds like an excuse for not doing what you need to do.

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Right, I think this is being overcomplicated but I'll just see how it goes. Cheers.

What is the problem here?

You want to settle in with someone, she wants to settle in with someone and you are hooking up with her and seem to like it.

You're in a better position than most of the threads started here.

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