I dated a girl 2.5 years ago. She rocked my fucking world in bed. We were extremely compatible. Then I found out she was a chronic cheater with deep emotional and mental issues. She was on all kinds of anxiety medicines and other types of prescribed medicine. I found out not only was I not her main boyfriend, but she actually lived with a guy for years and cheated on him with me. I left her. I was devastated and emotionally destroyed. As a matter of fact certain things from that relationship will definitely affect me forever.

I spent the next 2 years fucking all the women I could. I had slept with almost 30 women in the last 2 years. In the beginning it was to get over the pain. I became a much stronger man. I have been turning down beautiful women the second they act flaky. Then I get to sit back and watch them squirm when a guy, for once in their life, doesn't sit and bow down to them. I have become a man.

I decided 3 weeks ago that I am bulletproof. Now I can get in touch with my ex again. It's been 2 years since we spoke. We met up. She's single now and moved away from her ex boyfriend and lives with her family. Instantly, the attraction from years past was right back to where it used to be. Fucked her the first night. And many times since. She seems to have grown up a little bit but she is definitely still a chronic liar. This time around she has introduced me to her father and sister. She used to shield me from her life. Now she has let me in. But I had seen some text messages that definitely imply she is lying to me and seeing people behind my back. She wanted me to agree to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with commitment. I said yes. The fact is that she is dating other people secretly. This is known and not shocking news to me.

This time around I don't seem to have the needy, emotional, hurt attitude, and heart. I think I could handle dating her and just pretending like she doesn't cheat. The sex is killer. We get along so good in person. It's like magic. It's what I wish I could have my entire life. But she is secretly not good at all when she is not with me in person. I know it sounds like a bad idea. Do you recommend I run for the hills or do you think, being that I am much more emotionally stable now, that I keep her around and have fun. But I will always know that she can't be trusted and is out with other men behind my back.

I definitely think about her a lot and won't pretend like I'm rock solid bulletproof. But I am pretty good and detached with it. I've never cheated in my life and want to keep that going. If I know, for a fact, that she was cheating on me and I went and slept around, would you consider that as me cheating also? Does anyone here have any similar experience? Where you knew a girl was cheating but you kept her around to enjoy the sex and fun moments when you are together?

I know I am playing with fire, to a degree. Just wanted to see some input and get some advice, whether it's a green light or a slap in the face. I appreciate your opinions.

You already know that you can't trust her and you don't seem emotionally stable enough(when it comes to her) to only have her as a fuck buddy. Sounds like you need to let this one go.

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I think the sex has you hooked. Sex is one hell of a drug...


I don't think this girl is emotionally healthy for you at all. Ive been with some girls like that, eventually I left them, and when I did, I felt free as shit.

You are compromising your values here. The fact that you agreed to a boyfriend/girlfriend thing knowing that she is a chronic cheater implies this chick is your kryptonite. I would save the heartache down the road.

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What's wrong with making her a fuck buddy?

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When you lead with your dick and not your pocket you are a fucking bitch.

Dump her ass!

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