I feel like most threads are about guys who are too afraid to approach, but what guys like me?

I've never been afraid to walk up to anyone and strike a conversation, i have no problem reaching out and touching with kino and still nothing.

I look at my shy friends and think it would suvk being them but you know what? i still go home with exactly the same thing. NOTHING

I saw somebody suggest wearing a mic or using my phone. I want to get to the bottom of this shit. i want someone to tell me what im doing wrong. I hate this feeling. I hate knowing that once ive gotten into shitty relationships with shitty women that suddenly all these bitches that i was talking to who had no interest in me suddenly want my shit. And now that im single and down in the dumps im back to waiting to get lucky with some psycho

you sound like my buddy who lost his virginity at 21 . Cynical and beaten down. But I told him it will only get better and the next thing you know, he loses his virginity...and then a few months later has a girlfriend. Who would of thought?

My advice to you is to make sure you really want it. If not, it is not worth it.

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Want it? I crave it. I've seriously blown money on clothes/drinks, spent hours watching videos and still nothing. Tons of friends but no ass. Im so sick of it at this point. I can be the coolest guy in the room and still get nothing. I'm starting to hate myself

Do you masturbate?

If so.. Stop. Its a super food for depression. Women will also begin responding to you in a more sexually manner when you're packing more of a load.

I wouldn't take myself too serious at this point if I were you; you're having a "low", you're not feeling your best, but this is just a chemical reaction of emotions occurring in the body. Its not 'you', its just how you feel. You'll be fine in a few days.

I'd also be weary of what I'm eating if I were you. I lot of the processed chemical foods and many of the pharmaceuticals contain chemicals that trigger the chemical reactions that cause one to feel depressed. 21 days of a diet switch and you'll also be fine.

And are you really approaching man? Honestly? When you go outside everyday how many women do you approach? Are you attempting to escalate? Are you going for the kiss? Are you touching them sexually? Caressing when you touch?

When you start approaching 20 women a day for 3 months.. Come back and talk to me if you don't get laid by then.

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Im actually 2 days without masturbating

I approach at least two women a day at school. Not directly saying things like "Hey i think you're beautiful" or anything like that but striking conversation and transitioning to teasing and asking open ended questions so they elaborate. I start touching touching their arm very confidently and have been practicing making eye contact. I then start like high fives and hand touching and eventually i get their number but they flake or nothing comes of it. Im sick of it man. Im starting to think i should just walk up, tell them i think they're beautiful and if theyre not responsive just walking away.

Try 90 days.. Approach 5 women a day and go 90 days without masturbating and I'm willing to bet you'll get laid. 2 days ain't shit. Depending on how often you would do it, it could take up to 13 days to get a full load. And then your body spends more time building up the fluids that had to be extracted from your organs to create more semen. 45 days and you'll be whole.. Then you have 45 days to get laid at your best.

I always go direct.. 90% of the time.. Unless I feel like being funny. I'm like " Hey, I thought you were ridiculously cute.. I'm Eddie. Whats your name " as a i reach out to shaker her hand. My first 3 approaches are usually that way; i'll get more creative as i warm up.

I wrote an articled called " The Power in A Proper Compliment" - if you can find that, it'll help your approach.

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holy shit, 90 days? the longest i have ever lasted was 6 days. for me on day 5 or 6 it's just impossible to hold it any longer.
also: I dont act any differently, and women don't react any differently.

... that would explain a lot.

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Im not exactly sure what the longest ive held out for is but im committed to it.

As for direct, doesn't that screw with the whole not giving her power aspect of the interaction?

Im willing to try because I've never been direct and even with kino I've been getting friendzoned just without the "lets hang out" scenario

Your fear of giving her power is only a reflection of you thinking you lack so much of it that if you give a little away you will be without any. I have enough power to give the world a couple buckets full and still have enough to make my cup over flow. Its all in mentality and the state that you're projecting that determines whether or not a chick will be attracted to you. If you project that " I don't want to give her power state" you'll be friend zoned everytime.. Project.. " Here come share on my glory.. I have plenty to go around" state - women and people in general will find your more attractive.

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I believe this to be true as well. I have just given up in a sense. I hate women for making me work so hard for them. I feel that they are idiots for not seeing the awesomeness that is me and overlooking what could possibly be the greatest adventure of their life.

You guys man.. smh. If you truly projected this state in person and not just on the internet I don't think you'd have much of a problem.

Women don't make me work hard.. I find them to be very intelligent, easy goinging, and completely understanding as to why they should open themselves up completely to me. Whats so special about me? Nothing... or Everything.. However you want to look at it, but its the same for you.

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Go nuts with no fap, but it's really not going to make a difference. Your testosterone levels peak at 6-7 days after you've last ejaculated. After that, levels fall off a cliff. It's not uncommon to completely lose your sex drive after a month, to the point where you're not even interested in sex anymore. Some dudes have an increased sex drive after several months of it. But others become a eunuch. Be aware of both sides before you head down a path you may not be able to drag yourself out of.

No fap can fuck you up a lot worse than moderate masturbation ever could.

P.S. A portion of men who complete no fap find themselves sexually attracted to men after completing the program. On the up side, that will lead to a totally different place to get some ass

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I've never been direct. Im going to try it. Ive always just sparked friendly convo by commenting on something they were wearing or doing so maybe thats why i get a friend vibe. Im willing to try anything