Long story short, this 19 yrs old chick at work is pretty into me. Lot of IOI and trust. Came close to finger her a few times when cuddling/dancing at the bar. She moved my hand away everytime though. But still let me touch her all over.

Anyway, yesterday we set out to climb this mountain. She and a few other guys at work made it to the top. Those guys are also into her btw and have been amog me the whole time but I handled them well. Me on the other hand only made it halfway then had to head back. I've accepted the fact that I'm not as fit as i thought I'd be and just play it cool and not making a big deal out of it. But I do think this creates an opportunity for the other guys to come in and ruin my game. So how do you guys usually handle it when you can't physically compete with the girl or your rivals?

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Come on GKS, you've been here long enough to know that you don't focus on your weaknesses during seduction. You're supposed to focus on your strengths. Besides, this girl has shown her interest in you before this whole climb happened. When you see her again, you act as if the climb wasn't important and you continue where you left out.

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This is why cold approach is so much better.

Quicker and don't have to worry about work friends and all that shit that comes with slow game.

If the same girl is afraid spiders and her friend's are not, does this mean all your attraction jumps to her friends? lol

Just be optimistic and assume she wants your nuts in your guts regardless of wall climbing expertese

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Yup that's why i said I played it cool and just resumed my game. Just wondering if anyone would have handled it differently.

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Don't you mean "nuts in her guts"?

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Just get alone with her and make a move. If you're that bold to try fingering her in public just invite her to your place for a movie or something. Stop playing around.

Chick is weird, she's all over me when she drinks (she wasn't even drunk or buzz) - I made the move, she rejected. Next day she acts like strangers. Then same thing happened next time we went out for drinks. Once time, I took her back to her room (we stay in the same hotel, just different floor and with roommate) then went back to mine. Then I heard her laugh and another coworker outside my door, they slipped an unused tampon under my door ( it was the other chick's idea). Regardless, I texted her a few seconds later saying "A tampon really? If you want to come in, just say so " (she knew that my roommate wasn't home that night) then she replied that it was the other chick idea and "Oh and don't get frisky when you touch me. If I have to move your hand, you have fucked up. Don't do it again." - to which I ignored and just went on like nothing happened the next day.

Few days later, I gave her a simple instruction that I want her to wait for me at work in the morning so I can give her something. She never showed up. So I've been freezing her out for a while. Haven't seen or talked to her in a few days since I'm currently staying in because of a nasty cold.

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It sounds like she's just playing with you. Stop jumping through her hoops. She probably just likes the attention you give her. This doesn't sound like a girl who is down tbh. Not slapping you when you try to touch her down there does not equal interest. At least change it up...

It's the opposite. I was the only guy at work that doesn't jump her hoops, everyone else does. That's why it has been pissing her off because she likes to be in control and I always challenged her and took away her power. Probably why she gets all touchy when she drinks bc she knows that's the only time she would get my attention. I went along with her those two times but it won't happen again. I'm moving on and gaming other chicks. Cold approaching is much better than gaming coworkers. At least I don't have to deal with slow pace gaming.

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Is this still not her playing with you? I mean if she's letting you touch her a bit to get your attention then it's still playing games with you. If she's letting you touch her and she doesn't come to your room when she has a chance she's playing. When I say hoops I don't mean you are doing stuff for her. It just means she's in control of what happens. She stops REAL escalation. But anyways yeah game other chicks.

Yea I agreed. I went along with it and escalated since I thought she wanted to fuck. Those times were the only times I gave in and let her have the power. Probably why she keeps doing it. But no more.

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Your attitude should be "I'm awesome, if she can't see my awesomeness so sad for her"

NEVER compete for a woman's attention. IF she gravitate to another guy whatever, plenty more fish in the sea should be your vibe.