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| Rico_luts | PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2015 7:51 pm | |
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Posts: 23 | | lately i have beed having some shitty success ratio with opening sets ,
i got about 0 phone numbers from the last 20 sets i have opened .
i will so that overall when it comes to pick i am pretty successful i have been scoring girl who i liked over and over
but lately i am not running good.
the feedback that i am getting from girls regarding this is mostly that i am a dick .
asshole .
i think i am over gaming , over focusing on shit .
i wanna try do things more naturally and see the results .
will update.
has anybody here been in this spot before ?
i mean someone who is usually having success and run into hush time ?
i am trying direct and indirect approches . not really going for me
will keep posting
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| alexali | PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2015 11:17 pm | |
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Location: San Francisco | | If the response that you're getting is that you're a dick, that may be your key to solving the problem. I got into the habit a while back of negging too much. Where the only things that started coming to my mind when I was talking to a hot chick were negative things. That's not really even the type of person I am. Going the complete opposite way did wonders for me. Tell her she's gorgeous, complement something she's got on, etc. People are a lot more receptive when you like something about them or are interested in them. My rate of number close improved.
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| Mr. Assertive | PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2015 5:30 am | |
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Joined: Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:23 am
Posts: 3488 | | you probably have to work on your approach. If you are coming across as a dick you should try injecting some humor in there to not appear arrogant. No one can hate a loveable asshole, especially if he is funny. That's where my forte is.
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2015 1:50 pm | |
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Website: http://www.EddieFews.com
Location: New York City | | Your projection just isn't congruent with your frame.
When you're acting "cocky" but your frame is one of "An insecure dude" the incongruence will turn a woman off. Not saying you're insecure. But it sounds like something isn't adding up with your frame vs your behavior.
Not every pull has to be this grand thing. Sometimes i'm just not feeling it, but I pull anyway because I'm just like "whatever" about it.
When you over project, they'll over deflect. Lol _________________ Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com
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