the problem?

I know it's about me so what are likely to be the reasons a gf would dump a guy who had a good paying job, education 4 year degree, was artistic, in shape physically, had direction and purpose in life, had a good car and living place for a loser who works at steak and shake, chubby, balding, has a shitty place, no education, and since I'm ranting a crap taste in art and music and sucks. Just a loser in life, AND he does complain like the type who doesn't make money so he's like "I don't think we were made to be living to make such a simple thing" etc, excuses excuses for his stupid life.

So how could a pua get dumped for this loser? Me and her only hung out 2 times a week max because it's a somewhat long distance relationship 45 minutes so I don't drive out to her she would come to me, though we did text like every day or every other. We were kind of limited by an injury I had the last 3 months so it did become kinda routine of her coming over eating something we ordered, having sex, then she slept over. We might see a movie the other day.

Also she was a party girl who liked to drink on weekends and go to parties, I hate that stuff and never even went with her once. I especially hate it when the point is to get drunk, I don't mind so much when it's to see your friends, chill, discover a new restaurant/bar/chill. But when it's solely to drink it's a waste of time to me so that's why I never did it

Do you see holes big enough for this to happen or what are other likely reason a guy would lose his gf to a loser?

Don't overanalyze it, she just got bored of the routine.
The injury was also unfortunate, making her the one to invest all the time to come over, again, she got bored of that.

As you mentioned, she's a party girl. They seek adventure. She 's in a different stage in life than you are.
She younger ?

The stats dont matter for who she chooses. How you make her feel is what matters. And her having to drive 45 mins to see you is a bad start. Next time if you date someone that far away, switch it up and drive to see her. Also, the relationship sounds boring, made worse by the fact that she had to drive to see you. Just remember these things for the next time.

At the end of the day don't take it personally. If he's a better fit for her he's a better fit. Find someone who is on the same page as you, and remember to not get into a routine.

Yeah, sounds like you guys weren't fit to be together anyway. Only a matter of time before she got bored and decided to hell with it. If her values isn't what you sought, then why are you getting mad? She liked to party, you didn't...do you see how she would not be a good fit for you?

And you mentioned routine...that is a like a death sentence in subtle terms. Change it up next time.

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Crockett is right. You guys are at two different places in life. She still wants to party and experience the fast life, my guess is that she is a bit younger or immature. She wasn't the right one for you anyway. I know you might think it's a hit to your ego, but you can't look at it that way. You probably would have gotten sick of her anyway as time goes by.

A girl is going to role with the guy who is better for her emotionally. So in all actuality if she left you for this guy; you may want to ask yourself who the loser actually is.

a 4 year degree, a billion dollars, a car, and fancy clothes means nothing in the world of attraction. Sure you can pull some superficial women temporarily with that shit, but you're not going to keep a girl because you are what the world would perceive as successful.

I know plenty of what you would consider broke losers who got plenty of good looking chicks willing to do anything for them. Hell, I used to be one of those guys. I had dated models to self made millionaires and I did't have a dime to my name. I was sleeping, shitting, and playing video games all day long. But I knew what women wanted.. And I knew how to give them what they wanted. So they could always call me, or see me and I would instantly know how to give them a positive lift emotionally.

Women don't see women/men the way men see men/women. Ever have a girl tell you her friend is beautiful and then when you finally see her friend you're like " What the fuck? ". They're not visual like us.. Men see the looks, the car, the job, education etc. Women see how emotionally fulfilling the guy or girl is.

Theres a old quote that goes.. A Pimple turns to a dimple when you're in love. And a loser to you can be a God to another women if he knows how to satisfy her emotionally.

I think its better to look to the guy and find out what he is doing that you're not so that you can learn a thing or two.

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yup she was younger and thanks for the info, we were totally different in the end with totally different lives.