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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 10:16 pm 
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If anyone could give me some stickys,links or articles to read that would point me in the right direction that would be great. If anyone wants to pm me and ask how my "usual routine goes" to see where my weak points are ill let you know". Kind of saves you reading all of this, however you'll get more of my vibe or an indicator as to why things aren't going well.

Without coming across too over confident i'm not saying i'm anything special. I dress well and i'm relatively attractive, like i said nothing special.(to me the results i'm getting for the way i look don't match. I'm not like a world of war-craft bedroom dweller) I do boxing 3 times a week and go to the gym 3 times a week so i'm not overweight or anything like that.

I feel its my social skills in general that's dragging me down. The reason why i love game is because it's not just about the girls it's you as a person. Like those guys who say oh i need a line or a comeback, but what happens when you don't have that and aren't being spoon fed. Top guys don't think oh let me ask for a line, it just comes natural to them and that's what people shoud be aiming for. To be put in the right ball park but working their own style of game out for themselves. (side tracked)

i get numbers but The way my "game" usually ends up is the girl not putting much effort to 0 effort into the interaction and blanking texts(early on), so hardly any chance of getting dates. I always just feel like its a battle between us instead of the occasional shit test. I always get the impression they think they're too good for me or i'm not good enough. Ill be talking to 6-8's but give the impression their 9-10s. Like i can't even game girls that 6-8 let alone 9-10.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 5:08 am 
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This might seem like a stupid question, but do you act like a good looking guy?

Do not be so dependent on the outcome. If you're a good looking guy, then chances are that any given weekend you will find women that are attracted to you. If the door gets slammed in your face, try another door, or come in through the window.

I'm sure there is some pua term, but hell if I know it. I've always been told that whomever cares about the outcome the least is the person that has more power when it comes men and women.

You're a good looking guy, so act like it. Go for the 9-10's, swing for the fences. Babe Ruth had the record for the most home runs, but also the most strikes-outs. At the end of the day he knew he was one of the best that played ever time me stepped up to the plate. Babe Ruth always swung for the fences.

Understand my point?


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:55 am 
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If anyone could give me some stickys,links or articles to read that would point me in the right direction that would be great. If anyone wants to pm me and ask how my "usual routine goes" to see where my weak points are ill let you know". Kind of saves you reading all of this, however you'll get more of my vibe or an indicator as to why things aren't going well.

Without coming across too over confident i'm not saying i'm anything special. I dress well and i'm relatively attractive, like i said nothing special.(to me the results i'm getting for the way i look don't match. I'm not like a world of war-craft bedroom dweller) I do boxing 3 times a week and go to the gym 3 times a week so i'm not overweight or anything like that.

I feel its my social skills in general that's dragging me down. The reason why i love game is because it's not just about the girls it's you as a person. Like those guys who say oh i need a line or a comeback, but what happens when you don't have that and aren't being spoon fed. Top guys don't think oh let me ask for a line, it just comes natural to them and that's what people shoud be aiming for. To be put in the right ball park but working their own style of game out for themselves. (side tracked)

i get numbers but The way my "game" usually ends up is the girl not putting much effort to 0 effort into the interaction and blanking texts(early on), so hardly any chance of getting dates. I always just feel like its a battle between us instead of the occasional shit test. I always get the impression they think they're too good for me or i'm not good enough. Ill be talking to 6-8's but give the impression their 9-10s. Like i can't even game girls that 6-8 let alone 9-10.
"hey guys if anyone could give me a link or two to teach me the entire game that would be great thank youuuuuuuuu"

Read all the stickies in the general question section. And get some of the books recommended in the reading list of one of them. Gotta put in some work first, man!

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 10:50 am 
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Put in the time, put in the numbers, react to your results, continually improve.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 11:19 am 
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Put in the time, put in the numbers, react to your results, continually improve.

This ^

Here is an incentive, i am not that good looking, I have big ears and nose, I am balding....I have put in 10,000+ approaches and interactions and I often charm my way into girls panties.

Put in what is required and stop thinking your looks will do it all for you. The 2 big sticking points is approaching and escalating. Master these 2 and your life will change.

Your issue is like being born with $100,000 in the bank from parents and not learning anything about business or making money and expecting business's to be successful. You have to put in the work and earn it.

You're lucky, good looking guys were always the 'fast learners' on bootcamps - but its a simple case of having the fundamentals, approaching and escalating. Most good looking dudes never handle AA too well and just get pissed.

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If anyone could give me some stickys,links or articles to read that would point me in the right direction that would be great. If anyone wants to pm me and ask how my "usual routine goes" to see where my weak points are ill let you know". Kind of saves you reading all of this, however you'll get more of my vibe or an indicator as to why things aren't going well.

Without coming across too over confident i'm not saying i'm anything special. I dress well and i'm relatively attractive, like i said nothing special.(to me the results i'm getting for the way i look don't match. I'm not like a world of war-craft bedroom dweller) I do boxing 3 times a week and go to the gym 3 times a week so i'm not overweight or anything like that.

I feel its my social skills in general that's dragging me down. The reason why i love game is because it's not just about the girls it's you as a person. Like those guys who say oh i need a line or a comeback, but what happens when you don't have that and aren't being spoon fed. Top guys don't think oh let me ask for a line, it just comes natural to them and that's what people shoud be aiming for. To be put in the right ball park but working their own style of game out for themselves. (side tracked)

i get numbers but The way my "game" usually ends up is the girl not putting much effort to 0 effort into the interaction and blanking texts(early on), so hardly any chance of getting dates. I always just feel like its a battle between us instead of the occasional shit test. I always get the impression they think they're too good for me or i'm not good enough. Ill be talking to 6-8's but give the impression their 9-10s. Like i can't even game girls that 6-8 let alone 9-10.
Don't make your physical appearance as your main weapon for attracting women, its not. It's your behavior, how you react, and how honest you are with your intentions should be your number one tool. No matter how good looking you are if you behave like a retard...then it will get you nowhere.


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Don't make excuses....go through the dirty work and you will reap results. I am a decent looking guy, in the winter i have an excuse to wear beanies which bump me to cute level(maybe in my head) or i just loook hotter in hats, anyway. This is where i learn the most.

I read materials, I did the work....your turn. And I am still doing it. I try to go on at least 1-2 dates a week or improve with the girls I have been seeing.

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