Hey, guys.

I've been trying to game a classmate for some time now. Some interest, went on a few dates, failed to escalate properly (noob), got friendzoned. She had a very bad break up, I was unsure what to do and gave her some time (stupid ass noob). Game her too much time and now she apears to have gotten a new boyfriend, she updated her facebook relationship status.

If I was a gambling man, I'd bet it will not last. She usually goes for bad boys, this one is even needier and more beta than me. They changed their facebook status after knowing each other for two or three weeks and the fucker is constatly posting crap like "thank you for coming into my life" and "you're the best thing that ever happened to me". Smells like a rebound.

She knew I was intersted and gave me some "you're still my best friend, please don't go away" crap. In fact, she talks more and invites me more to hang out than before. She obviously likes me around and doesn't want me to go away. I've started flaking a few times since my interest obviously dwindled after that.

Some of you guys say a freeze out is one of the most powerful tools in the PUA tool kit. Taking away what she likes until she gives me what I want. The question is, do I do it right now or keep hanging out (although not as often) until the inevitable breakup and then go cold, kinda like desapearing when she misses me the most?

Btw, I do game other girls and I am moving on. Just wondering what is the best strategy for this one.

Sorry to say but it sounds like both of you are plan B's. So you belittling the other guy isn't helping because that could have been you. You aren't moved on at all...you're asking us what to do about this girl...you probably like her. If you are gaming other girls you would understand that you have to give a little less to get more. I wouldn't put any more extra effort with this one. I'd let it cool down a little and put her in the back of the line until it's time to reheat things up again.

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Thank you.

I still like her, obviously. She is the one on the back on my mind when I am with some other chick. I did not move on completely, but I am trying to.

I already put her on the back of the line, dramatically reduced comunication and post pics with other girls. What I want to know is, what do I do when they break up (assuming I do not have a GF by then)? Imediately reheat and escalate, or go even colder until she is the one coming to me?

You can ping her every once in awhile so she won't completely forget you. If you are naturally busy..you will not have time to think of what to do next. You will spontaneously decide to talk to her. It might be a week from now you're like, "oh i remember so so, let me shoot her a text and see what she's up to". You can reheat things after they break up...just make sure to see where she is at mentally...because you do want a relationship with her...make sure to screen her real well before you settle down...even the prettiest girls can have red flags.

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O.K. Thanks for the help.

For what it's worth, I tell you one thing, losing a girl to another alpha male sucks, but losing her to someone you precieve as inferior, that is like having your pride ripped out with a crawbar and tossed in the train tracks. Let's get real, when an 8/9 prefers a guy with a good phisique, intersting job, sportscar and fat bank account instead of me, well, that's life. I would prefer him too if I was a girl. But being second to a needy chode raised in foster care who barely finished high school and has a minimum wager job... God damn it, it stings like hell...