Today I went to a Club with some friends. And one of the girls there, is one that I have spending sometime on her. And had a guy chasing her all the time. She wanted nothing with that guy, but he was persistent and annoying. I was close of start one fight with him, but I keep me calm and after a long time he went out of club.

I just was thinking how protect one girl without fight. Even because I'm living in the other country, and I don't want to be arrested and lose my visa.

How do you guys do?

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No need to fight.

If he won't back off... And is actually bothering your chick, then she's not being blunt enough... And that's something she can control... But something you shouldn't be showing your annoyance to.

If you trust her, don't sweat it. She'll keep rebuffing him and making him look dumb until he gets sick of it and leaves.

If he persists, you ask him where his girlfriend is, in front of everyone...

If he continues and starts to be a dick, tell him he's being rude, take your girl and walk.

If she is a girl your dating, then you can tell him "she's with you", and stare him down.

If she is a girl you want to get with, but isnt interested then you dont want to look too try hard, as she might see it as neediness. BUt a good way to handle this is to say to the guy "your making her uncomfortable" in front of her, then back turn him. If he is, she will say so, and he'll sulk, say no i'm not, stay a little longer, then leave.

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She's not "yours." Can't own another person. She's gonna do what she wants to do.

It depends, if this is a girl you just met, then its her problem she has to deal with. If it's a girl you have been spending time with, then this should be fairly easy, ask the girl if this guy is bothering her, if she says yes, just be polite and ask the guy to give you guys some space.

Lots of different scenarios here. You can even lead her away somewhere else if you are tactful. If the dude follows...then sucks to be him. No game.

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A guy followed my ex girlfriend around a club and i told him she was with me tried to stare him down. He didnt get the picture because he was a fucking idiot. I warned him again to get to fuck. He then grabbed her ass and woke up about 3 minutes later with a sore face.

I warned the bouncers to move him along or i was going to do it. The bouncer said he'll watch him, he then watched as i gave the guy a sore face. Simple dont touch my girl after shes warned you then i've warned you. I would advise fighting at the best of times but i cant stand seeing perverts feel up girls especially girls who arent into it in anyway.

I didnt get removed because the bouncer seen it happen and understood why i done it.

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Fair question, i feel alot of us run into situations in which you want to "protect" or "Make sure" your HB doesnt get taken away.

That already stems from an insecurity. That means you think you're girl will be snapped away or something.
Not true. The only way this'll happen is if she smells your insecurity and gets turned off by it.

In your situation in particular it seems that a guy was annoying. Thats a bit strange.

But what you can do is ask the girl directly "Who is he?"
If she says "Random weirdo just wont go away"
Tell her directly "Tell him to go away"
If he wont go away , tell him yourself in a friendly way. If he wont go away after that, go tell security.

Problem solved.

I've done thousands of approaches in my life and that has never happened to me.

Useually a guy realizes pretty quickly she is with you and goes away.
But girls are smart. They know how to get rid of annoying guys.
The more you go out and socialize the more you'll understand, these situations are not a big deal at all.

Play it cool and dont get in fights, use your head and common sense to disarm obstacles, pick up is ultimately a game of wits.
(i'm personally a guy who rather punch first and ask questions later, but in the game you must control yourself if you want to succeed) Actually in life in general.

Make love not war.

Meditation helps with this. I recommend it. It has been proven to help increase focus.

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Pissing myself Ver ! hahaha

Well here in glasgow sometimes its unavoidable. I've made many an approach in my day but im talking about my girlfriend who i had for 2 years. Why would you stand and let someone feel her up after he was warned and she literally tried to get away from him.

Make love not war hahah. I wish everything was as simple as you say my good man . OOOH and for the record i had wild furious sex with my girlfriend even more than usual i think it was for the fact i could protect her and wasnt scared to protect her.

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