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Interesting Eddie.
When you talk on the phone do you socialize/get to know each other or only set up dates?
Is socializing on the phone to be avoided entirely?
I notice the bit I open up on the phone, they slightly cool off the following days.
So I suppose after dates you say "give me a call"
I socialize with women on the phone man.. I love talking to girls. Its a hobby of mine. Its fun.. So when they call me we'll talk for 20-60mins sometimes more if I have the time.
It all comes down to your level of confidence and skill honestly. I'm an entertaining dude, so I can keep a girl highly entertained for hours on the phone and keep the interest high. But i've also had a lot of practice. I've been calling women on the phone since I was about 10 years old. Not actively of course, but i had a girl I would speak to at ten " with her mom and my dads permission, that i would talk to for about an hour a day. And I've had hundreds of other girls Iv'e talked with for hours on the phone since then. I wasn't always good at it; sometimes I'd be nervous and sometimes I would be awkward. Especially when I really wanted the girl.. But you build resistance to this emotions with time and action and you get over it.
So i do it because i like it man. And i like to talk to girls.. I'm all about building relationships and genuinely connecting with the women I'm sleeping with. but thats not for everyone. Some guys are a bit colder, and just want to bang and move on.
Not my thing.. At least not anymore. I've raised my standards and I honestly don't enjoy sleeping with any girl that I can't have a long conversation with. That shits over for me. I've already done it.
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