Hi guys, this is my first post here and I've learned a lot since I got single and discovered this community.

I've met this girl last week and from the first second the sexual tension was there. Best date I had so far and she was all over me. Even in the bar we were I was touching the inside of her thighs and she was enjoying it. We walked to her place and made out outside but she refused to let me in. Before i left, she told me she would think of me while playing with herself. The days afterwards we were texting back and forth with loads of sexual stuff and agreed to meet up last Friday for a 2nd date. In one of those texts she said that I 'd been too cautious in front of her place and I could've had her.. So for the 2nd date I was confident I was getting laid. We met and while walking outside she mentioned she wasn't wearing underwear and that she had masturbated in the library while she was studying. So my confidence was sky high and we went to a bar across the street where I live. Again she was all over me and stuff, but everytime I mentioned going to my place she refused. Finally the bar closed, we went to her place, I fingered her outside and she said she wanted it all. But again refused me to let me in... I tried a lot but nothing worked.

So what should I do now? Obviously she knows that I want sex and I think that's why she keeps refusing it to control me.

I was thinking about stopping all the sexual stiff in texts and maybe just stop texting at all. And after a couple days invite her over to cook dinner at my place and act like I don't expect anything from her anymore. Then during cooking start escelating again and hopefully getting control back again.

Would this work? Hope you guys can give me some help.

Yes, yes and yes.

Drop using the sterile text environment in an effort to escalate sexually.

For God's sake (and tons of guys do this so don't fret you're not alone by any means man) don't get her pussy wet when you are not with her: Women are led by emotions IN THE MOMENT. 5 minutes after she's wet from your texts, her mom calls and she has forgotten all about what she was feeling in that earlier moment. As far as she is concerned it was a lifetime ago or never even happened.

Do what your gut is telling you to do and escalate in person.

While she's helping you cook, go up to her from behind, kiss her neck, and go from there.

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Under what pretense are you trying to get her back home? You might want to try a more "innocent" approach like "come over and watch a movie" instead of just inviting her back there to fuck.

Don't cut out ALL sexual tension. Just cut it out when you're trying to actually get her back to your place/in her place whatever.

At her place you could have said "Is it cool if I come inside and use your bathroom real quick?"

Keep it simple

This girl sounds like a fucking waste of time to be honest

Relax bro..

You're going to get it. And that obvious. Just chill out.

You sound like you're on the right track as well. Just pull back a bit sexually and when she askes why just say you aren't trying to get yourself worked up like that this time around. Its makes an uncomfortable ride home.

She clearly just doesn't want you to think she easy. She's doing the normal chick thing. Don't let it get to you.

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