There is a girl which was (or still is, I'm not sure) attracted to me. Some background info: she is very close with some guy, however idk what is their relationship (just friends, friends with benefits, or maybe something more). I had noticed since few weeks ago IOI's from her (hair toss, looking at me from distance). I was still unsure about her interest because IOI's were marginal and she is with this guy all the time, until few days ago. Our eyes met and I saw her smile at me, and after split second she looked on the ground. I read this as a green light on approaching. Few days later I had chance to talk to her (I sat next to her in class). It was hard to gauge her interest, however she sounded submissive; didn't escalate though (probably mistake). Some time later she just stood up without saying anything and sat next to the guy she is usually with. Later that day she was walking behind me really close but not saying anything. I looked back and saw her looking at me but she quickly looked away. I again started conversation, but it was quick because I had to go somewhere. I noticed she speaks to me with higher pitched voice and in a submissive way. She doesn't contribute much to conversation but sounds excited to talk to me. I got pretty optimistic at this point. However I saw her 20 minutes later again in a social setting and her attitude was completely different. She didn't look at me at all; when I was passing by she moved out of my way, it looked like she didn't want to be touched by me. I asked her something, she didn't maintain eye contact and excluded me from conversation. It gave me vibes of disinterest. Now I'm confused what should I do the next time I see her. Did I do something wrong?

Tl;dr Girl's attitude towards me changed in just a few minutes

I always hate it when I read these posts where a girl throws a guy a signal and then waits a few days to approach her. It's that moment that her interests and thoughts are on you and it is the prime time to speak to her. You never know what may happen from one minute to the next and what's going on in her head. Bad news can be a mood killer.

Next time she looks interested, do what you need to do to start a conversation. Get her in a position that you can escalate.

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Ask yourself these questions:

A. Am I pursuing so many girls I keep accidentally putting this one on a back burner, and forgetting to approach?

B. I'm getting the opportunity, over analyzing the situation, nurturing my rejection fears, and then pussing out?

In my part of the country where hunting and fishing are top sport, we have this reactionary brain anomaly known as "BUCK-FEVER".

You are perfectly outfitted in camo, the best high-powered rifle money can buy, you are hidden and isolated in a comfortable blind, there is a irresistible bait pile in the small clearing directly in your line of vision.

Then, out of the thicket steps the most magnificent whitetail you have ever seen, 12 point rack of antler, beautiful cape, broad sholders - easily 200 pounds.

You bring up your scope, the animal turns, presenting it's forward flank sideways, your are staring directly into it's eyes.

Beautiful

Awe inspiring

Your mind is racing, your heart pounding in your chest like a hammer. You suck in your breath and pray it has not seen nor heard you, (even though you know you farted). You fucking FREEZE.

In your mind, you are gutting it, hanging it up for butcher, dragging it the 1/4 mile out of the woods back to your car, tagging it, lifting it up on the roof.

A million thoughts flooding in.

Your prize nimbly strides of into the woods, out of view.

Miss.....NO! YOU NEVER EVEN PULLED THE FUCKING TRIGGER!!

Pussy Fever/Buck Fever, ya gotta pull the trigger Bro.

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always assume attraction - it will help with your self esteem, keep you in set longer, and just because she shows you disinterest doesnt mean she doesnt like you. sometimes women suck at flirting

when you see a girl waving at you from across the way. dont question it - talk to her

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Just ignore her -- don't give her the time of day -- mimick whatever she's doing to you back to her. I know it sounds really childish and girly but in order for her to understand you need to punish her bad behaviour not reward it ---- bruhmann

Thanks for advice everyone.
I got a little update on the situation. I saw her with the other guy going together and holding hands. She noticed that I saw them and she let the hand go for some reason. And again there was a situation when she was cuddling with him, I was looking her right in the eye. When she looked at me she immediately stopped doing that. It's like she wants me to think they aren't together. There was a situation when we were standing next to each other and she was touching me. We made some talking but I didn't do anything because I have inner game issues with all of this. Whenever I see them together I get weird feeling in my stomach and I feel angry and jealous. This makes me unable to talk to her because I feel upset. The reason is because I had asked this girl out some time ago and I liked her a lot but she flaked, and started hanging out with this guy. I feel like she let me down. If I was a real PUA I wouldn't give her any chance now, but since this is currently my only option to get laid I have to do something about this.
Any advice? How do I get rid of emotions towards her?

You got needy in the past, and have since developed "oneitis" for her.

You end up pining over the girl, thinking about her constantly, analyzing things to death, and yapping about it constantly to your friends.

You need to cure that before you can begin to move on.

So the rule of thumb is GFTOW, (go fuck ten other women).

I know that's easier said than done.
This is complete bullshit. YOU, need to get rid of even the smallest bits of your scarcity mindset and fully embrace the abundance mindset!

Stop chasing her.
Avoid all contact.
Remove all reminders. (Including social media.)

Focus on keeping yourself busy with your daily bullshit, working out, hobbies, and things that make you happy and fulfilled.

I know your thinking "But she's special; she's different; she's perfect for me."

SHE IS NOT FUCKING SPECIAL!

There are BILLIONS of women out the, and your going to sit back on your lazy ass and tell us she's your only option?

Why does she tease you with glances, looks, and being nice to you?

She likes having you around so that she can feel sexy, but she's never going to fuck you.

The goal here is to make contact with as many women as possible both, in real life, (best) and online.

Go online and do a search of girls your type in your area looking for a Bro just like you.

This allows you to keep a "there's always more fish in the sea" perspective.

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The similar situation has also happened to me.In my case what i observed was that the girl would give me IOIS when she was wid her female friends. But would totally ignore me when was wid a male friend of hers (or different male friends).
Wat could be the possible reason ??

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