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Do not take it personally if you are getting a low match count on Tinder. Do not let it question your ability to get with women. Do not let it effect your confidence.
I guarantee even the best looking guys out there aren't having huge amounts of success on Tinder due to this reason. If you're confident and comfortable and if you were to approach those girls who swiped left of you in a bar flowing with good energy, you would probably walk away with a phone number 80% of the time.
Spot on in my opinion. I was on POF and got a bitchy entitled reply from a HB6. Thought, WTF. It can fuck with your mindstate if you're not careful. Went out into the real world and got a good response. There is something to be said about everything in your post SteveJ, although no doubt there are guys out there absolutely crushing it with Tinder/POF/etc.
It's just that I find women are so open to RL approaches that online TO ME seems like a waste of time. Though I haven't tried tinder yet.
It feels like a DLV to me that I am sarging them online when I know full well I could be at the very same time approaching women offline and generally get some sparks going.
Yeah don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are guys out there who are great with online dating. I'm sure there is some sort of game to it that would be difficult to nail and in my opinion not very resourceful compared to night game or daygame.
My point was more that lack of response on Tinder/Online dating should have no effect on your strong, confident mind set and to not let it effect your real life gaming.
Because you're right, lack of response can make you start to think that you're not good enough, not good looking enough and can make you start to resent women. When really that just isn't the case because women are not visual in their attraction.