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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 5:20 pm 
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A girl who I'd say is one of my closer friends has been giving off some strange signs lately. We slept with each other two years ago and never had anything more, then we didn't speak for a year as she went travelling and met someone, I guess she saw no reason to talk and I was having my own relationship at the time.

Recently we've both become single and we've started talking again after she got back in touch. Her more than me, she initiates every single day and to be honest I've noticed I'm gaming her unintentionally (I'm really busy with work so take long to reply and I flirt with her purposely as I know she gets shy) but I don't really seek any end result, just to be friends really...

Anyway she was peppering me with texts and snapchats on Friday night and I woke up to a text she sent at 4.30am saying "sorry for the snaps x" ...now I'm unsure as to why she sent this..

1. There was nothing in the snaps, just her getting ready to go out where she was looking unbelievably hot
2. I asked her why apologise the next day, she said she was just so drunk
3. Again, she has initiated text every day and has now asked when I'm moving to her city (I am in two months)

I never really see her being into me to be honest.. but the drunk text, I'm assuming it was either she wanted attention (most likely) or she's getting some feelings I've not expected..


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 5:32 pm 
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Reading into it too much. If you're busy and have better things and women to do, why would you bother by such a drunk snap? Your frame is inconsistent. Instead of asking her about it, you could have be playful and play along saying something like "No problem. We've all been there. Drunk off our asses. But oh wow..." then go do your shit until she texts you back then be like "hey come over for a beer and pizza"

No need to sit there and over-analyzing everything. If she comes over, you know what she wants. If she doesn't, cool and move on.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 5:43 pm 
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True GKS, very true. I think it's because it's off the cuff I'm surprised.

I'm obviously out there gaming girls, and I've then noticed her coming out of nowhere, when I've not being putting any intention into it so to say. I guess the same rules apply, even if it's friends.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 6:38 pm 
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I would of replied to the sorry I was drunk text a little differently. Normally what I fine is when girls just text it's cause they want the D. At any moment on a girl were people go out all kinds of guys are hitting up girls but think about who's tension She is trying get. Yours! You should try to play it cool and said something like clearly from your snaps you were banged up.

When you know dam well she didn't look drunk in that photo and she was trying to look sexy.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 7:30 pm 
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Unless you live 5 mins away, receiving a drunk text is useless. 1. she is texting you because logistically she can't get to you at that moment nor any other guy for that matter. And 2. by the time you get in your car and drive to fuck her she is either asleep, banging someone else, or sober enough to come to her senses and not let you fuck her once you get there.

You will have a better chance of fucking her if you don't even acknowledge that she drunk texted you the night before.
Act like if you never received the text. She knows you received it. Saying something about it only puts her in an awkward situation.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 6:45 am 
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She possibly wasn't drunk but embarrassed at the snaps that were showing off her body without a reply from you since you were sleeping, so she used the 'drunk' as an excuse. I think she's feeling you. Only way to find out is to invite her over when you move to her city.


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