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Of course they wanna leave. It's weird to walk up to strangers and expect to have the conversation of your life with them. The problem here is that you expect something from them - you expect them to invest back. But that won't happen unless you can give them a reason to do so, and you can't give them a "reason" by doing a monologue, hoping they will find your stories interesting enough... UNLESS you have rehearsed a great act of course, like a stand up comedian or something, which would take you back to Mystery Method.
The way to go is to "feel" the situation. If a girl is busy, in a hurry going somewhere, it's probably a bad idea to walk up to her. The difference between daygame and nightgame is that people are busy during daytime, probably working or running errands. And there you come interrupting them, trying to make them fall in love with you. You see the problem here? If you want to interrupt someone, you need to give that person a very good reason to do so, and you need to be very quick about it. That is why you need to be very direct and honest during daygame. Say something like "wow, I've not seen such a cute girl in a long time" (that's the reason why you stop her), and confirm her feelings by saying "I know this seems weird", which will make her more comfortable because you show that you understand her situation. Continue with something like "...but I can't miss this chance. What do you say about having a cup of coffee with me? You can almost consider it a blind date.". And that's it. Quick and effective.
I would recommend venues where people are more relaxed, maybe in the evening or during their holiday, and the beach or in a park. Or in a library where they are sitting down, not running anywhere.
I have tried the method u gave me and it results in a shit load of flakes so i stopped using it. I remember i used to be decent at creating attraction which i did by teasing but then i turned it down a notch because there was no comfort. Now im stuck trying to build comfort from the start and the teasing seems structured and i want to go completely natural.