Dear PUA's.

What do you guys do when you and your six friends meet two girls.
This is what I did:
First I just said hello to the girls but I didn't talked to them much. Then later that evening, I saw my AFC friends not escalating (maybe they gave a hug), so I took things in charge. Later I did escalate and that girl was totally mine.

So this story sounds good in my opinion, but maybe there is something you can do even better?
Does somebody know this?

I mentioned something similiar before, but didn't get any good response:
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Dzifa

Truth is a lot of the time LESS is MORE.

Say you're going to purchase a car, and aren't quite sure on the one. Are you going to be inclined to buy car A that is being pushed heavily by the sales guy, or car B that is equally as attractive to you, but this sales guy isn't pushing it on you and letting the car (e.g. mileage, functionality, design) speak for itself?

That said, NOT escalating is a DLV, or at least gets you compartmentalized into the friend or non-interested group. Women want to FEEL sexy, masculine energy by default is the YIN to her YANG - it's whats going to push those buttons that make her feel gooey and wet inside; she needs US for that, our MASCULINE energy.

If you're not escalating, you aren't doing shit. Sure, there are times when you're friended only to realize later that she was dropping hints that she wanted more, and yes sometimes you can recover, other times not so much. But the reality is escalation is a key component in pushing those sexual buttons within her, it gets her fantasizing, it stimulates her on so many levels not just the physical (most orgasms are achieved through mental stimulation less so physical, so its not just about stimulating her clit or kissing the nape of her shoulders/neck.

Your friends stayed too long promoting comfort and did not pose as sexual threats to her, how boring. I feel bad for her cause she knows they're time wasters and its going nowhere. Completely ASEXUAL relationships - maybe she needs more friends though, who knows?!?

Escalation (so far as she'll let you go before stopping you) is extremely sexy, it's a MASSIVE DHV and shows you know how to take charge (DHV - most women want to be submissive in the bedroom to their man), are willing to take risks (DHV), are assertive (DHV), all of which are mentally turning her on by this point (DHV).

Also remember, which you seem to have down, is to NOT talk so much (less is more, remember). Talking a lot kills sexual tension, UNLESS the context of the talk is sexual in nature but even still keep it to a minimum. Talking can also be construed as you being anxious, or even narcissistic, or just annoying - seriously who wants to hear someone go into a monologue unless they're on stage performing a comedy act or skit. Talking though can be a good excuse to escalate...move in close to her, soft voice, speak a bit slower, be suggestive, close to her ear so she can smell you, feel your presence, be fluid about it if you're mechanical she'll sense it and you'll look like a fucking creeper (she'll blame you for her awkward feeling too, don't kid yourself). Most guys blow themselves out by talking too much - a man of action is far more attractive any day. Also, what most guys don't realize is they already had the girl (ironically) before they had begun running their mouthes and being circus clowns or magicians with a bag full of corny technique, lines, and other canned material.

Dear n2thevoid,

I agree with your post. The car was a good example
Maybe I was a bit unclear in my previous post.
So six friends jumped on two girls and talked a lot.
I was just with another friend talking and didn't mentioned the girls.
Later the girls were not feeling that MASCULINE energy.
So I gave it to them.

But my point is, did I well by not escalating when everyone was trying to escalate?
Or should I escalate from the start?

The point you made about talking is indeed powerful!

Dzifa

Always escalate. If she's putting the breaks on you, respect that boundary, build comfort and try again.

As a PUA you can read people and can easily tell whether guys (friends or not) are a threat to you. In most cases they are not. They will do some pathetic attempts to hit on the girl you are interested in, and you can lean back and just watch how they will spoil all their chances with her, all by themselves. When they are done, you can just jump back in into the game. It's easy. It get trickier though if your competition is an experienced PUA.

That is exactly my vision! I didn't tell anybody that I study PUA stuff. Do you PUA's, tell your friends?