There is this girl. Met her more than a year ago when I knew shit about game. Obviously it did not go very well.

Met her again a few months back, when I was in full "noob with a mission" mode. Came on too strong and arrogant and scared her off.

Some time ago she stoped answering my texts. She had a boyfriend back then, now acording to her Facebook profile she does not.

Anyway, I just got that Viber thing installed and she came up on my contact roster, so I thought it was a good oportunity to give it a last go. Maybe send something like "you got kidnapped or something?"

What do you guys think I should text?

Does not hurt to send. I always resend a text to my one night stands, they somehow still have my number weeks from the "night". Not always successful but eh, who cares.

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It's almost always possible to repair the mistakes you made with a girl. It depends on the severity though (like something criminal, or if the mistake has been repeated over and over again a thousand times). However, the solution requires some real life action and not some texting... She needs to see the change.

So... To stick with text despite this... My suggestion is that you make a complete 180-degree turn for a while and are very gentle and humble towards her. Don't try any "alpha male" shit on her, since the term is usually mistaken for being (as you said) arrogant and unpleasant.

I'm sending something, that much is certain. It's a complete cold turkey aproach but might as well try. The fail is guaranteed so anything better is a win.

I don't think I did something unforgivable, as I said she was pretty much my first attempt at game and as any other n00b with one too many "Alpha Male" threads on the favourites menu, I pretty much went like "Oh, you have a boyfriend? Fine. I'm still giving you the honour of having dinner with me. Wear something sexy, I have a reputation to keep". Yeah, I know...

Now, between her breakup, me getting better at game and the "time cures everything" factor I might as well have another shot. I know some of the bars she hangs out at but she is currently in college out of town and won't be back until summer, so an aparently casual and random meet is not an option right now. I was thinking of giving it a go, sending some pings now and then, regaining her trust, as you said, and by the time she gets back in town go for the meet.

Now, the question is, what to send... I'm already in the dog house so one wrong move and I pretty much blow my last chance.