Touchy subjects such as alcohol vs weed, politics, religions



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 12 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Fri Apr 11, 2014 8:23 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader

Joined: Thu Jul 08, 2010 11:16 pm
Posts: 1166
I know we're not supposed to touch those subjects in the initial stage, but after you're dating a woman for a while, these stuffs are bound to come up. I usually just say my piece and if they show no tendency to open up to the idea and keep escalating the argument, I'd just drop it and change subjects rather than wasting my breath and energy on someone who isn't willing to listen. Sometimes I also ask questions about her point of view rather than make the argument just about mine like why do you feel that this blah blah blah

I wonder how would you guys handle it? Do you go out of your way to prove your point (isn't that qualifying yourself to her?)? or do you start using all the manipulative techniques to win the argument?

_________________
,___,
[O.o] .: Survival Guide For Online Dating
/)__) .:Tips To Significantly Improve Your Online Game
-"--"-


Top
   
PostPosted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 7:11 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:26 am
Posts: 153
Website: http://www.askyourselfy.com
Most people are set in their opinions and you can generally tell if you are able to sway them. If you aren't, it isn't worth the time. Most likely, though, if you can't agree on most stuff like religion, politics and baseball (money? No, fuck it, baseball) then you don't have a ton in common and things will eventually go down the crapper.

That being said, many people can still make it work, but not by fighting and trying to steamroll each other.

_________________
Writer, entrepreneur, life coach, man's man, traveler, friend.

CHECK OUT:
http://www.askyourselfy.com


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 2 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link