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Anyway, every one of your threads are self-absorbed and you flat out refuse to take any criticism. You come here asking questions without listening to the answers then do your own thing anyway and backlash at people for giving advice asking them "Why should what you say work and mine not?" as if to say you're right when the evidence suggests otherwise...
This all the way. This!
To the OP: Listen to what people are saying. You come here looking for answers but it seems and feels by your posts that any other response other than "You did a good job dude...she was just a weirdo" is incorrect to you or we must be wrong. Here's a break down of your interaction. To be honest, even reading it made me cringe, weirded out and awkward.
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Me: Hi! I know this sounds weird but I think you look nice.<touch her on her arm>
It now sounds weird because you stated it's weird. Why is it weird to say she looks nice. Its not, you think it is. Now she does too. Something like "Hey I don't normally do this but i just had to say. You look nice and I really like your <insert some random piece of crap she's wearing"
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She: <Smile>
She found it creepy.
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Me: You seem relaxed.
She's not and you're stating that she is thus analyzing her. Creepy.
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She: That's sooooo sweet of you but I really have to buy something to eat now and then go home, sleep.
In girl/logical language: I have to go do this thing that gets me away from you oh and then I have to do this thing that gets me physically away from you to a point where you should know I'm really not interested.
What she probably really did: Left, rang a girl/friend of hers, met up with her, told her about the "creepy guy at the train station" then probably jumped on some alphas cock.
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Me: That's not sweet at all .... yet.
Creepy.
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She: I really have to go.
Girl Language: I'm going to state again that I really have to go so you'll get the message.
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Me: I have a flat.
CREEPY AND WEIRD.
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She smiles while leaving.
heh, seems like a nice girl. Most girls I know would have torn you apart especially after the "I have a flat" comment.
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The LJBF-vibe is strong in this one. Or am I overanalyzing the "that's so sweet of you"?
She's not LJBF you. She's "I don't even want to talk to you".
I applaud you for your persistence but you don't seem to learn from your mistakes. You would rather try to seem faults in what they did to protect yourself. You seriously need to sit down, have a think about yourself as a person and fix those faults. You essentially need to expose yourself to yourself because currently you're going out, you're sarging but getting no results because the problem is YOU.
Acknowledging your own faults and fixing them is what real men do. Ignoring them and blaming others is what fakes do.