There is this smart HB9, which is a really good friend with my best friend (male). For a few days, they were skiing somewhere with their families and my dude told me that she said good stuff about me (beautiful eyes, smart, cute...) and that I should not let her go.
The problem here is another guy who she also likes. He looks just too needy, I dont understand who can she like him.. he keeps buying her drinks, he is always after her. AFC!
I think I am acting pretty much cocky and funny to her. I use negs, I show her that I can leave whenever I want when we are around people or when that guy is around and I always make her laugh.
Another big shit is that, when we 3 meet somehow (me,her and that needy guy) she kind of picks him i guess. We are only together when we are alone.
3 weeks ago we were alone and together.
2 weeks ago she was with him, but I was there (I acted like i dont care).
1 week ago we were alone again and again together.
Fuckin yesterday she picked him again and i was fuckin there! This shit really freaks me out, altough I dont show it.
What do you guys think? Am I doing this right? And what should I improve or do?? I really want to have this girl.. It would change my self value from 6 to 9

1) Stop using a scale and rating everything you see or experience

2) Go for her

It's that simple. She wants you, but no one is making a move, which means that another BETTER guy (neither you nor her "needy" guy) will come soon and take the opportunity. If you don't make a move, both of you will stay like that and things might seem a bit awkward and boring sooner or later.

It's still early, let's not mention that you have a really weak competitor.

I repeat, go for her now or you'll regret that you never did.

While you are here shitting on this "AFC" he is doing something better than you. He's escalating under the radar. He's showing interest while you are trying to be too cool for her. He will win if you play that game too long. At some point you have to escalate, and you haven't done it yet. Stop trying to shit on people to make yourself feel better. This guy is workin that girl hardcore if she keeps going after him.

Not gonna lie, you sound pretty AFC as well. Did you just really say if you have this girl your value will go from a 6 to a 9 ...not good my man. What happens after you guys break up? You become a 6 again? HA.

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The bitch could be playing you both off of each other also. Anyways, go in for the kill and stop being a pussy. I don't think I could say it any better in this circumstance. Sorry if it sounds harsh.

You need to show interest. Turn it around and think about how long your interest would remain with her if she wasn't telling you she liked you but was acting "cool". It's different if she's a needy chick and not a HB9. Hot women don't sit around waiting on a guy that isn't showing any interest. I sure as hell wouldn't sit around hoping for a chick to eventually show interest in me.