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I wondered how you guys would deal with this:
Went out with my friend last weekend, we picked up a couple girls. Little background:
I'm 5'11", work out regularly, fairly well built, and can confidently hold my own.
Anyway, was dancing with the girl, went to the bar again to grab a drink which was right by the dance floor when one random guy with his friends started very ostentatiously grinding up on me aggressively to start shit.
i was quite drunk, and i'm a surgeon, so i laughed it off and said "oh you crazy kids these days" (mind you i'm 29), and the girl ended up pushing him away and he backed off quickly. she said people are such dicks sometimes, and i said i used to be like that, but i can't afford breaking my hand over stupid shit like that anymore, she says good for you, and we do shots.
i didnt think of it again, but it could have easily gone over a very different way. i thought i could push him or easily trip him to hold my ground, but this guy was 6'4" and easily had a solid 75 lbs on me, and a black eye or getting my ass kicked would have prevented me from hooking up with her that night (it was a one night deal as i was leaving town the next day and i just wanted to have fun that night).
how would you all have handled the situation like a true alpha male, without getting your ass kicked, and hooking up with the girl? also, i'm definitely not willing to engage in fights because breaking my hand/finger/wrist and staying out of the OR for a month is a huge cost to me
Did you sleep with the girl?