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PostPosted: Sun Dec 29, 2013 8:16 am 
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Let me start from the beginning:

I met this girl in school, never really talked to her during the semester excect once or twice for about 10 minutes every time. I got her number with an excuse that we should check answers blah...

a couple months go by, we don't talk. Randomly she asks me for help getting notes for the final and luckily I had them saved on my computer so I email them to her she is very grateful blah blah blah... The Semester ends we keep texting into winter break. This happened for about a week and a half before we met up, we met up last night.


THE IMPORTANT PART
I met with her last night for the first time. We drank, and fooled around. She wanted sex but I was too drunk to get a boner(she was a virgin). So we fooled around I fingered her, taught her how to feel pleasure, taught her how to blow me. Next morning I wake up, dazed and confused and to my surprise I find her still at my place. Turns out I threw up multiple times but played it off like a champ. I was surprised she stayed the night, anyway we fooled around a little in the morning(this morning) I penetrated her a little(she was so tight, I could only get the tip in), but I was still out of it with a massive hangover, and it still kinda hurts now. I asked her to leave because I really needed to rest. Before she left we agreed to workout today, and that I would text her at 4.

THE PROBLEM
I texted her at 5... no response. I called her at 7 it rang but no answer. Then I texted her right after I called letting her know that I was going to do something else if she didn't text me. Why is she ignoring me? and how do I handle this? She usually never takes longer than 30 min to respond.

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She is bi, She has never fooled around with a guy except for making out. She has been eaten out by another girl, that's as sexual as she has been. It seems like she has low self-esteem, always second guessing herself, she said she was picked on in high school. Overall she is a 7 in looks. During our date she was telling me about other guys she liked, showing me pictures and shit asking me if she's in their league, just dumb shit.

I have an update but I would rather you guys tell me what you think without knowing the update first.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 29, 2013 9:00 am 
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Freeze her out for now, it's either one of the two:

1) She had the intention to sleep with you, but regrets doing so as it was her first time doing such stuff.

2) She's rethinking everything over and needs some space.

Alcohol is always bad for a first hookup, you have to know that. Same exact situation happened to me last week, except I re-fucked her in the morning to substitute for the last night's bad sex (also no boner because of too much alcohol).

Just give her some time and try again when you think it's suitable. There's no period requirement to wait in order to call, but give it at least 2 days.

PS: Try calling, not texting.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 29, 2013 10:31 am 
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Freeze her out for now, it's either one of the two:

1) She had the intention to sleep with you, but regrets doing so as it was her first time doing such stuff.

2) She's rethinking everything over and needs some space.

Alcohol is always bad for a first hookup, you have to know that. Same exact situation happened to me last week, except I re-fucked her in the morning to substitute for the last night's bad sex (also no boner because of too much alcohol).

Just give her some time and try again when you think it's suitable. There's no period requirement to wait in order to call, but give it at least 2 days.

PS: Try calling, not texting.
Thanks man this is very helpful advice. So I have two updates to add and maybe you can shine some more light on this. So after I sent her the last text(7pm) I talked about above she texts me about an hour later(8pm) saying she would rather meet up tomorrow(sunday) or sometime next week. I take a while to text back(830) and say that tomorrow sounds good I also say so there is no confusion between us I tell her if she wants to be sexually exclusive or open since I plan on fucking her with no condoms soon. She just texted me now at 2am. I haven't read the messages because then it will show I read it lol, but I peeked at it and in one of them she mentions her imessage was off(sounds like BS, but innocent till proven guilty), so I think she apologized. I don't want to metal about where she was tonight, frankly I don't care but I do want to know if she had sex, Would it be unreasonable to ask if she had sex? Especially if she wants to be exclusive?

Where do I go from here?

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Last night while we were fooling around my Ex came up in conversation and since this girl is bisexual I suggested them meeting. She said she was down but doesn't want me messing around with her on my own. So I think she is hinting at being exclusive.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 2:46 am 
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New update(this is bumming me out now):
So the texts last night didn't say much, she just said she was down to be exclusive with me. I text her today about noon saying that that is cool and what her plans were today? She texts me saying she is out of town will be back monday or possibly later tonight. We exchange a couple of texts and one of them says that she had fun that night but I let her down. I send her a text light heartedly apologizing, and saying that I would make it up to her(with my dick obviously). She says she is down to hangout and always mentions that she wants to see me again but at the end of the last text says that she is not sure I can show her a good time(major shit test obviously). I respond an hour later responding to the stuff before the shit test and respond to the shit test: haha how do you even know what a good time feels like? :)(she's a "virgin")

At this point I have no clue what to do except a freeze out but if she does text back should I stop trying to set up times to hangout? What do I do now?

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 3:44 am 
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she had fun that night but I let her down.

As you know this is an obvious-as-fuck shit-test. Any time a woman you haven't had sex with runs lines that sound like this or similar, it can be a good idea to turn it around on her immediately. You are the prize not her. "hahaha u let ME down, u didn't console me in the bathroom when i was puking. u sure you're g/f material?"
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I send her a text light heartedly apologizing, and saying that I would make it up to her(with my dick obviously).
We want her to be doing things to make things up to us, not the other way around. Challenge this girl and brush her off. She's a virgin. She has almost no experience. Keep going with the thread where you call her on that. Hang in there bro, if she wasn't potentially dtf she wouldn't still be texting and shit-testing.


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she had fun that night but I let her down.

As you know this is an obvious-as-fuck shit-test. Any time a woman you haven't had sex with runs lines that sound like this or similar, it can be a good idea to turn it around on her immediately. You are the prize not her. "hahaha u let ME down, u didn't console me in the bathroom when i was puking. u sure you're g/f material?"
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I send her a text light heartedly apologizing, and saying that I would make it up to her(with my dick obviously).
We want her to be doing things to make things up to us, not the other way around. Challenge this girl and brush her off. She's a virgin. She has almost no experience. Keep going with the thread where you call her on that. Hang in there bro, if she wasn't potentially dtf she wouldn't still be texting and shit-testing.

Good advice man. She called me today while I was with my ex(had sex with her around 8pm). I couldn't answer and I texted her I going to have a late dinner with a friend tonight(dinner around 10) . She was basically begging me to see her tonight. I said tomorrow would be better, and she insisted we see each other later tonight even after midnight(I told her I would finish with my friend around midnight). I waited a little then negged her saying that if she really wanted it that bad that I would see what I could do(to leave dinner early) I also told her where we would be having sex with another neg. Since she didn't respond to my negs I texted her again to call me if she still wanted to meet later so I could leave dinner early(basically to confirm, I realize I played this bad here). Now she isn't texting me fuck. I plan on calling her near midnight to see if she is down to get fucked, good idea or not? or freeze out till tomorrow? wait definitely freezeout till tomorrow.

Edit: she just texted me saying: alright :p

Notes to self:
reframe get her to do things for me like you mentioned.
Im going to tease her tonight saying: Omg I cant believe you didn't hold my hair while I was throwing up lol

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 9:17 pm 
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I can sum up the night with some of drake's lyrics:
She came through, she brought food
She got fucked, she knew wassup
She think I'm the realest out
And I say "damn, that makes two of us"- Drake
She calls me daddy now- Tyler13

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I can sum up the night with some of drake's lyrics:
She came through, she brought food
She got fucked, she knew wassup
She think I'm the realest out
And I say "damn, that makes two of us"- Drake
She calls me daddy now- Tyler13
Props bro for real.


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