I just got rejected hard. But it's been awhile since I approached a girl and tried to make a move on her. I have been in a relationship for the past 8 months. She was an HB 9, problem was, I didn't know if she was serious at times or not. She threw out IOI's but then threw out hard negs. It was tough to keep up since being back in the field. Apparently, "walk me to my car, I might get lost around the neighborhood" was not codeword for make a move on her lol. I walked her to her car, got in the car, smirked, told her to come here, and she said no. Lol. Maybe I missed a few steps. I probably need to reread love systems or some PUA material but she got irritated. She told me her deal after being persistence in trying to get the makeout (me thinking it was bs) she told she had to get a UHAUL to move her stuff out of her boyfriends apartment since they broke up two weeks ago. She was serious. I believed her because she mentioned a few days ago that she was moving into a new apartment. She was even more irritated that she thought she would be late, she gave me a stern reprimand. I was unfazed, but she just wanted me out of the car at this point. I am in damage control I believe...or I might have just lost her.

Earlier in the day she was telling about how one of the students tried to get her and another colleague of mine to hook up. I probably failed this shit test because I didn't know what to say (I have been out the game!) . Probably should have said something along the lines "you guys would be cute together". And maybe I would have been okay during the walk to the car.

I think she was making up her mind of who she should go for between my colleague and I, and at the last minute she chose my colleague. Maybe I was overthinking it. I don't know you guys tell me.


I really did some major AFC moves in this field report, I will summarize them for you,

I negged...too much
I failed some shit tests
I lacked full confidence
I fumbled a bit
Made her a bit umcomfortable (I know, big no no)
I asked her out wrong (Said, when are you coming over, instead of if you care to come over some time, when finals are done, blah blah dates).
I DID NOT READ CUES VERY WELL.


Do you guys have tips to help me get back in the game. Even being in a relationship I lost a bit of game....2014 will be a tough year.

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MOTIVATION AND DEDICATION, to learn any skill takes those two things

Motivation
you have to be motivated by something, some men desire to be like james bond or some people desire to just have any girl they want. the same as basketball some people play to be the next micheal jordan. some people are honestly just motivated to get better. you ahve tos et goals and know you can't reach that level unless you try harder

dedication
this is the part everybody hates, everybody can say they want to be something and even give it a chance a couple times but on the dedicated make it, you have to know that things don't come easy and things don't come quick

remember when a girl rejects you, she doesn't reject you she rejects your approach because she doesn't know you....and if she does know you, then say "fuck her im amazing"

read up on some stuff, go back to the basic, even do the newbie challenge, its going to take work to get back to the person you was, but if you start from the basics you'll have a strong foundation instead of moving to fast and falling over

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

This ^^^^

Game comes back to you very quickly when you've came out of a relationship and get back on the scene. If you've been successful in the past and achieved unconscious competency then it's still there inside you. The main thing is to get your calibration skills back up to scratch. You can do this just by watching other guys approach in a busy bar or club and observe "The Matrix" in action.