Hi I have some questions..
First i need to say I have bad english and I hope you will understand it!

1. My question is: when you talk with a girl and u ask her almost everything, you did some games and but she gave you fast and short answers. NOW u dont have more to say and trying to find out something to say. What are u doing in this situation?

2. what to do to get girl social?

3. How to get her attention?

Are you asking girls questions like a game show host, or are you asking questions that genuinely interest you? Coversations are question, statement, question, statement. You ask a question, she aswers, you make a statement about her answer. Yea a pretty crude formula but use it as a guide when talking to girls.

Also if a girl is giving you a bunch of short answers, you haven't built enough attraction.

Girls will only be truly social if they like you, you can't force it, you have to build some attraction and then she will be more social.

And you get their attention by displaying attractive characteristics, like confidence, good posture and clothes, shit like that.

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I did a jealous girlfriend test and then questions that interest me. But this problem happens almost all the time.

You probably came off as needy.
Try to learn how to have a good posture and don't lean in to talk to girls you don't know.

Use statements. "Hey you look European, you know that?" "Wow, with those clothes you must be a college student from XXX" See where i'm going? The response is always good, even if you guessed wrong.

Wallie

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Ok there are two possibilities here:

1) You're asking questions which lend themselves to short answers. For instance, if you ask "Do you like the color blue?" Her answer is either going to be yes or no. If you say something like "Tell me about the best trip you've ever taken" her answer has to be longer.

2) She just wasn't interested, and was only giving you the bare minimum answers that politeness requires.

So if you are confident you were asking good questions and capable of decent conversation, probably best to just move on.

I hope you meant conversations aren't question, statement, question, statement... because that's the format of an interview. Actually, that's the format of a bad interview even...

okey I See how u mean and Im going to try ask them questions that going to be long answer. And stop leaning on them. Thank you guys!