How to give off IOIs?



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 24, 2013 6:51 pm 
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I feel like PUA is geared towards nabbing a particular girl (for the most part). Some girls can get intimidated by an alpha male. Your aplha posture may be conducive to attracting alpha females but could also make regular females shy away from you.

Think about it. Beta males often will not go after alpha females, they tend to stick to their own kind, right?

Just like there are Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta, and Omega males the same applies for females. The books are written on how to attract women, but these techniques are, albeit more generalized, but seem to be geared towards attracting Alpha Females.

I consider myself a Gamma male with a lot of Alpha tendencies. The women I am trying to attract are Gammas, too however the game is just different. I have more greater success banging out Alpha Females than I do Gammas. I am much more attracted to Gammas, though, but I fail miserably.

I feel like my posture, tone, confidence is not conducive in my effort to game them. But, I don't know how to change any of that. I use direct game, I've tried this on gammas it simply doesn't work.

Maybe I could do a better job of giving off IOIs and not scaring them away. What are some ways I can give off IOIs whether verbal or non-verbal to gammas, betas, deltas, omegas...just anything other than Alpha females?

Given the personality traits of some of these women, it is conceivable that the last thing they would do is give off an ioi, even to someone they like, pre-approach or during your game.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 24, 2013 8:13 pm 
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I think this theory of yours (is it yours?) is overcomplicated and wrong. I am quite confident when I say that it is wrong, because every attemt ever to categorize people is doomed to fail. Even the term "alpha male" is quite volatile, since your level of "alphaness" depends on your current mood, and is relative to the individuals in a group. So whether you are alpha may vary from situation to situation.

You should rather focus on building rapport, which I think may be your main issue (it is quite common). A good book to read is The Art of Reading Minds by Henrik Fexeus.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 5:34 am 
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Bro, this is fucking ridiculous. You are over complicating the SHIT out of talking to girls.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 6:15 am 
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Almost everything you said is incorrect


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 6:26 am 
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Bro, this is fucking ridiculous. You are over complicating the SHIT out of talking to girls.
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 6:33 am 
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IOIs demonstrate a passivity, it's a feminine thing to give off IOIs. Be the dominant one. Don't think about your IOIs, think about your approach.

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