So I threw a housewarming party Saturday night. I end up feelin good and spitting mad game. Things go great and theyre blown away by my bedroom game.

What do I do now? I lost some value yesterday because I was a little overzealous in trying to get them over again. Cooked dinner for us but they werent coming. I even told the coworker "not looking to fuck, just wanna do something nice for you".

I -really- would like to keep at least one of them on a fwb level, if not both. Since I contacted them yesterday when I shouldnt have, im freezing out for at least a couple days.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!

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Sounds like you are going just fine, and besides, you already got a threesome! Way to go!

I don't think a freeze out is a good option in this situation... Just write it off as a once off thing unless they're actually into that kind of stuff and do it all the time.

Thanks bro! It was everything I'd hoped for haha.
Pretty sure that wasn't their first rodeo...and I'm not trying to get both again neccessarily...but I would like to hook up with them individually sometime. I'll freeze out for at least today...I feel like I need to regain value. Besides, I'll be seeing the coworker tomorrow.

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Be cool dude.

Is this isn't just a "freeze out" thing; this is an entire shift in attitude. A girl is most likely to sleep with the guy again that things like this happen "often" to. And that is not what you are delivering here. It sounds like you got lucky and let it get to your head; now take yourself back to the moment right before it happened.


Don't contact them anymore; when you see the coworker, play it cool and act as if it didn't happen. Let them come to you. Its the only way - The righteous path is a narrow one.

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Haha great advice man. Youre right...I have let it go to my head a little. To be honest I really like the coworker so I'm definitely treading carefully. Dont wanna act on my impulses and be clingy. I will definitely play it cool!

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You should have been cool about it and don't talk about it at all, as if it happens to you so often. Then start pitching them against each other subtly, they compete, you're sitting in the middle getting all the rewards.

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Yeah im at work now and i saw her but we only spoke very briefly. She is on a different shift now so itll be easier to stay away. Just to be clear...you said NO contact? Thought about inviting one over for lunch tomorrow or taking lunch to the other...

Ninja edit: i havent mentioned saturday night or anything sexual to either of them!

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lol make women compete for you. haha, nice