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PostPosted: Sun Aug 11, 2013 7:24 pm 
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Ok first. Alet you guys know where I am.

I'm good looking, not just the average. I am not fat or sick or retarded or anything like that.

I lived a very messed up life. My father was a deadbeat, my mom was a drunk, fighting every night, and no money.Couldn't focus on school with all the BS. Ended up Never going to high school and pretty much spent 15 to 20 isolated. With no power and the rent never being payed, no money, no security. me and my dad pretty much didn't pay the rent for 3 years.. Amazing right?. Well it's true.

Moved out around 5 months of being 20. moved to to another state and got a job, started socializing, making friends and approaching girls. saved up some money and started a business on ebay and amazon with a bunch of stealth accounts and started making 3000$ a month. Bought a nice scooter and am about to get a car and a motorcycle also have my own place now.



Anyway. I Have never even kissed a girl.. Let alone a virgin. Never even had a girlfriend..

I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS A GIRL.. It scares me that if I tried that it would embarrassing that a 23yr good looking guy acting withno experience.

I dont even understand the concept of what it is to have a girlfriend, how to keep one and how to do the dance. Like... I just don't get it. I never saw it in high shcool. never talked to friends about it or never had any examples. I need help here.


Anyway. So with my life stable, good income, more confidence ect.. Where should I start and how.. Thanks.

P.s I have watched ALL of david deangelos stuff. Also david wygant I have watched alot of him.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 11, 2013 7:33 pm 
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Ok first. Alet you guys know where I am.

I'm good looking, not just the average. I am not fat or sick or retarded or anything like that.

I lived a very messed up life. My father was a deadbeat, my mom was a drunk, fighting every night, and no money.Couldn't focus on school with all the BS. Ended up Never going to high school and pretty much spent 15 to 20 isolated. With no power and the rent never being payed, no money, no security. me and my dad pretty much didn't pay the rent for 3 years.. Amazing right?. Well it's true.

Moved out around 5 months of being 20. moved to to another state and got a job, started socializing, making friends and approaching girls. saved up some money and started a business on ebay and amazon with a bunch of stealth accounts and started making 3000$ a month. Bought a nice scooter and am about to get a car and a motorcycle also have my own place now.



Anyway. I Have never even kissed a girl.. Let alone a virgin. Never even had a girlfriend..

I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS A GIRL.. It scares me that if I tried that it would embarrassing that a 23yr good looking guy acting withno experience.

I dont even understand the concept of what it is to have a girlfriend, how to keep one and how to do the dance. Like... I just don't get it. I never saw it in high shcool. never talked to friends about it or never had any examples. I need help here.


Anyway. So with my life stable, good income, more confidence ect.. Where should I start and how.. Thanks.

P.s I have watched ALL of david deangelos stuff. Also david wygant I have watched alot of him.
So fucking DO it man. You came from the bottom. I did the exact same thing. You know all about hard work. Getting good with this is exactly the same. Put in the work and find ways to make it happen. Figure out what you need to do to be successful with women and take action bro.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 11, 2013 7:43 pm 
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Probably the hardest thing for me to do is Tell a girl that I'm a virgin who has never kissed a girl. I Have never told anyone this. Should I keep this secret?.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 11, 2013 10:38 pm 
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Depends on what you are after.. Do you want a girlfriend or do you just want to have a ONS?

Ask yourself this: "Do I want the girl to know that I'm a virgin? Do I want the girl to know that I have never kissed a girl?"

I'm not sure she would be interested in knowing that!

Get drunk, go out, practice your shit, try it out on a girl, try with routine that ends with kiss-close!
Get slammed, go out, find a girl that is equally slammed, try with routine that ends with kiss-close!

Cheers and congrats on your rise!


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 11, 2013 10:47 pm 
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Fucking kudos to you man, good on you for making the most out of yourself and keeping pushing forward.

Use the momentum of your new positive situation to build your confidence. Basically 90% of game is confidence in my opinion.

But as said previously it's important to know what you're looking for.

Don't be nervous kissing girls! There's loads of material on the internet that can help, and don't be embarrassed, nobody is gonna check your search history! (Until you get a girlfriend that is ;) ) And don't think being a virgin is a burden, make it your choice and be secure about it.

Good luck and keep us posted on your progress.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 11, 2013 11:30 pm 
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Probably the hardest thing for me to do is Tell a girl that I'm a virgin who has never kissed a girl. I Have never told anyone this. Should I keep this secret?.
Unless you can turn that into a funny and entertaining story (and actually leverage it to convert it to kissing or sex) I wouldn't mention it. Just my 2 cents.

My approach would just be to go for it with someone you find interesting - even superficially, but not someone you're looking to date. If you make it a one night stand and never tell her you're inexperienced, you'll never have to tell any girl again cause you'll have one under your belt.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 12, 2013 12:06 am 
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just my 2 cents on the topic, dont build kissing up to be some huge magical thing that is a big deal to women, its not. I probably made out with 4 or 5 chicks on saturday night in the span of 3-4 hours before the girl i ended up banging arrived, just talk to a girl for a bit at a party, make her smile, and go in. Rejection? dont fucking worry about it, its only as awkward or as uncomfortable as you make it.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 12, 2013 7:29 am 
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Nothing wrong with telling a girl those things... accept yourself for who you are and be comfortable within your own skin and things will work out :)


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 12, 2013 7:31 am 
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bro, I'm 23 and about to be divorced. you just put life into perspective.

I don't mean in my life is sooo much better kind of way but in a if you can overcome this shit I can overcome my shit.

thank you.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 12, 2013 3:50 pm 
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Kissing ain't so special. Don't put girls on a pedestal. Girls have more insecurities than you probably have, even the really good looking and successful ones!


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 1:16 am 
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What I did...go out take ACTION ACTION!

Become social. Stop hiding from the world. Get into hobbies and do social stuffs to meet people.

Go out nomading by yourself at nightlife hotspot by yourself to numb your solo-stimga people feel going out by themselves.

Just start.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 3:20 am 
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Probably the hardest thing for me to do is Tell a girl that I'm a virgin who has never kissed a girl. I Have never told anyone this. Should I keep this secret?.
Tell them after... this conversation almost never actually comes up in real life so don't even worry about it.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 6:48 am 
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My first kiss is when I was 19 in college. Don't sweat it mate. Just do it. If you don't know how to, just pay attention to the way the girl kisses you and copy her. Women love that for some reason. That's how I learned to become a good kisser.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 7:14 am 
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I got laid at 13.

I didn't know game back then. I was chubby (not overweight). I didn't have money for two at the movies. And I was effeminate because I grew up in a single mom household. So how did I get laid without game?

Simple.

I had a hard on and drank some of these:

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Now, dude. Grab your balls and slam 'em on da table. Learn game later to be efficient.

Balls first. Game later.

Good luck.

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Then me ruin you're a Virgin. Hopefully you can fake your way to the vagina

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