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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 2:53 pm 
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Ever since I moved back to town after college, I've been hanging with this old group of guys that I have known for about 10 years. It seems that they feel threaten by me consider the fact that none of them have a college degree and all working labor and food chain restaurant.

Hence, they talked shit to me all the time, they went on about that I'm a bookworm and how they are better than me at the club and real life, blah blah blah. I usually don't feel the need to prove myself to anyone since I'm comfortable with myself. So I didn't feel the need to have a pissing contest with them either, most of the time I just ignored them and carried on. I had a talk with them before about how I wouldn't care less if they shit talk when we were playing around but sometimes they crossed the line. However, recently the shit talks starts to increase, how would you guys deal with this? I know I can just drop them and stop hanging out with them at together, however I've known them for more than 10 years, I don't want to resort to that.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:14 pm 
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I feel you because I don't like bragging either. I don't know if it's a good idea to go out with them and show your seduction prowess they might feel even more threathened by you but they could also acknowledge you. You know them better than me so you could tell better I think.

However I wouldn't call these "toughguys" AMOGs. They're just insecure douchebags. It can also help to make them feel they're worthy for you. Ask about what they are doing and how is going with them and make positive remarks about how cool is that. It might be against your guts but it might also lower their douchiness. Again, I don't know, they're your friends not mine.

That's just my 2 cents, what came to my mind.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 10, 2013 5:45 pm 
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Hey dude,


Every guy gets to a point where they outgrow some of their old friends. If you are continuing to grow and they are at the same level, they can only weight you down. I personally don't hang out with anyone who even thinks they can consider disrespecting me on the lowest level. I'm in charge of my destiny and just know the dangers of allowing that kind of energy into my life.

If you want to keep them around thats cool, but understand you will be running with sandbags tied around your ankles; it'd be easy to just take them off and continue on your destination.

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