Hey guys i am 18 and this girl that i am trying to seduce is 20 year old. It has been month since we first met and we had actually met 3,4 times in which one of them we kissed. But she thinks i am too young for her! and almost stopped talking since that kiss. (she did kiss me back though) i need help. Maybe an unarguable excuse? I am young looking 18 and she is old looking 20

What do you mean 'make an unarguable excuse?'

It sounds like she's trying to convince herself that you're not good enough for her, even though she likes you.

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yeah exactly she said she likes everything about me! but she said she doesnt want to hurt me even though she already did by saying ''i dont think we should talk more often''. so how can i let her realize that she likes me and convince her that i am good enough for her?

The fact that you made this post is whats making it an issue. You don't even believe you are good enough for her. You're driving behind her on a one way street so there is no way for you to get ahead unless you take on a change of perspective. As a man you must LEAD, when a girl says you're too young for me/too smart/old/fat/skinny etc LAUGH at them and talk about something else. The age only has power if you allow her concerns about it to effect your energy. Thats why its an issue; because when she mentions it, you become effected. Its all a test; until you become non reactive to external factors, you won't have the success all men are capable of having.

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So should i just continue talking casually to her? or give her little space? i mean age thing didn't come out as an issue until i asked her out with confidence. We really do enjoy having conversations. Also after she said lets not talk anymore, the day after i asked her if she is still on about not talking thing and she said we can be friends with 2 conditions
1. We cant meet by ourselves
2. We cant chat everyday
Which i said sure even though i didnt like it!
In my opinion she cares too much about what other people will think of her.

You have to be the director of your own movie dude. Right now she is yelling ACTION and moving you around like a pawn on a chess board. Women hate being in control but they will be if they're talking to a guy that doesn't know how to lead. Thats when you get introduced into the friendzone. The harsh reality is, you are not yet in the space mentality to recover what was lost. I'm just being honest. But the goodnews is, if you next this chick; completely cut her off and move on (NEVER talking to her again, no matter what!) you will be one step closer to being the prize with women. Do the tough things now that will benefit your future later on in life.

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But i really dont want to move on! I have never been this close to someone after meeting them for 1 month. Also when we are together, it is really fun and damn she has nice body! also she said things like ''you will regret this'' being close to her and also ''You will be very hot guy within 2 years'' idk what she means by that i think i look aright! so what does these words mean she repeated these a lot!

Dude wake up.


You're thinking too small. There is a whole world out there. Leave her alone dude. Its going to be tough but medicine does not taste good and isn't comfortable to take, nor is it easy. You're sick on love now; you'll never get her like this. Take your medicine dude. Its for you own good; just trust me man. I've been in your shoes, i know what this leads to. Let her go bro.

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ok

I clicked on this link expecting a story about a sex-mad 40-year-old cougar and it turned out you're talking about a 20 year old college girl?

I am disappoint.

Well yeah she thinks she is too old for me! she still has age issue.