Ok guys, I'm due to go on a date tomorrow evening with a girl I think is alright but not someone I'm too attracted to (which I don't really know why, she's naturally good looking, smart and nice. I think it's because im 90% sure she already likes me so there's not much chasing or playing hard to get involved). If you want more info on me and her you can read it on my other post: so-confused-any-help-really-don-t-know- ... 63139.html
But it's not essential.

Anyway I'm not really that nervous about my sort of date tomorrow (we haven't really officially called it a date, just mentioned it as us hanging out, is it a date? Do I pay for everything?), I was thinking about going for a walk along the beach in the evening, then walking around then grabbing a quiet drink somewhere and getting the bus back to where she lives and walking around before she goes home (we're both 18 and neither of us drive and I dont have too much money, Student in the uk) but I was just looking for some tips or advice you may have for the date or have anywhere better to suggest going?

Any advice is appreciated, Thanks guys.

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You should pay of course, since you invited her... but if she insists to pay her part you should say:
- Let's do it this way, i play this one and you pay the next one (it solve the problem and make possible the next date!)

The best advice i can give you, don't waste all of your day walking, how would you be able to create a moment if you are walking? You have to be in a place for as much time you think it's comfortable to be! And on that moment you should talk, tease, touch, do stuff!
Also choose the place to make sure you can sit next to her instead of in front of her! For example choose sofas, they are comfortable and you can seat next to her.

You can try this, i let you use my weapon if you want to.
Before kissing her just look at her and say:
- Sorry but I've lost a lot of opportunities because i didn't try... then put your hand on her face (over the hear), push her to you and then kiss her.

If she refuses, fuck that, go away and leave her where she is

I hope that when you quote me back on this forum you would be able to give me good news
Best of luck!

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Hey man, thanks for the advice. Yes I think me paying is a deal.
The dates in a few hours now and it's rainin like hell so I think the beach is a no no. I was planning on walkin then Sitting for a bit when we find somewhere comfortable then walk again when we got bored.
Haha thanks for your weapon, it sounds good. But I'm not sure if I'm going to go for a kiss today as it is actually making me a bit nervous but I am going to try a bit of kino like hugging her when I first see then I'm not too sure where to go after that haha but I'm sure I'll think of some at the time.

So my change of plan is meet up, get a drink, go bowling, movie (although I generally don't like the lack of communication) then maybe something else? Any suggestions :/ ?

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I'm not sure about the cinema, but your plan seams cool! The bowling thing sounds great! Go for it, but save the cinema for the end if she seams to like it! Don't force it!
My friend, since i bet you know her for awhile if you don't do anything today she'll think that you are a loser and you don't know what to do! If she accepted your invite it's an open door!
Don't be a pussy, if you don't do anything today she wouldn't do it also! And it's tic-tac, tic-tac, tic-tac... girls don't usually give second changes! Believe me! You have this one, if you fail you'll fail for ever with this girl.

I believe you prefer to cry because you failed with her instead of cry because you feel like a loser cuz you did nothing!
Who cares about a girl that is not into us and we tried our best, screw her!

Think about it!

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Hey so here's the report back. Make of it what you will and give me feedback if you want (I'd appreciate it).
We met up for a drink at a club and As I was already texting her so I asked her what she wanted to drink and went to the bar before she arrived as I got in 10 minutes before her. She arrived and I gave her a hug to greet her before sitting at the table; opposit/facing each other as it was 2 sofas facing each other. We talked and communicated pretty well, conversation flowed well and there were few pauses. After she went to go to the bathroom I got us another drink and told her to sit beside me so I had more leg room as we kept kicking from time to time. We kept talking and got on well and after getting her next to me I decided to try some kino and from time to time I put my hand on her shoulder or knee when it felt appropriate. We sort of lost track of time and decided we would just stay there for a few drinks and not go bowling or anything, then catch her bus as she had to get home. At the bus stop and on the bus the conversation continued to flow and some kino as she put her head on my shoulder more and I pushed the hair out of her face several times as it kept blowing in her mouth, ect. We got to her house and her mam was waiting outside (who I was previously told that she thinks I'm good looking after been shown a photo of me and her daughter) her mam almost force me to get a taxi and even ordered it for me. After a couple of minutes the taxi came (quicker than expected) and I never kissed her, which I was planning to at her door but her mam was there and the taxi came quick so I didn't get the time (probably making excuses there...) almost as soon as I was In the taxi she texted me and we continued to text as we always seem to.

She said she really enjoyed the night, however we both have exams over the up coming week so I'll probably not see her till next weekend which I feel there is definite pressure to kiss her.

Thoughts? Many thanks, Hunter.

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I usually dont' like movies for first dates- there isn't much escalating and a lot of sitting around. It might work if you work up enough kino to start making out during the movie, but otherwise I wouldn't do it.

Aside from that, I like the plan!

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You did an excellent job my friend, it's ok if you didn't kissed her right away but setup another day with different activities (avoid routines!! do new things)
Your story has a cool background, everything seams to be in your favour, just take advantage on that.

Setup a new date as soon as you can, but don't force it, if she's not available then setup another day.

But trust me, if you don't kiss her on this new date she'll start to lose interest on you! You didn't kissed her on this one, but you did some progresses with her so, not a big deal! But you have to continue making progresses and i only see one that you missed =)

Nice work, best of luck

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Hey guys, thanks for the continuing awesome advice
Yea I'm not a big fan of the cinema as its more antisocial than social haha.
For my next date I'm thinking that with the weather getting warmer and sunnier that I might see if she wants to go to a pretty nice park in the city centre and possibly buy some sandwiches and have a picnic. What do you think?
How do I go about kissing her? I feel confident I'm at least an ok kisser but don't know how to really get to the point of kissing her, at the moment I'll probably feel awkward and avoid it and I'm not sure if I say something before it and if so, what do I say? And then what do I do after it?

Looking forward to your replies, thanks again guys

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Yep- this sounds like a nice plan - a lot of potential for convo and escalation when you're walking outside.

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