After being an AFC for most of my life, I guess I pushed too hard one way. Ending up making a dick move and made the girl cry. I felt horrible, but on the outside I tried to show I wasn't overly sorry. Now she doesn't respond to me.

Her friends found out and now they dont like me too.



What's the right way to apologize? I felt I did apologize but didnt come off genuine. Do you ever do something sweet to make up for the dick move (if you really were being an asshole) ?


ps: Seeing her cry almost made me cry, should I mention that? It seems counter-intuitive but if she thinsk youre the type that doesnt care.

Since you didn't specify what was actually done, it's hard to give a detailed answer. What did you do? You don't have to be too detailed, but enough so that everybody will get the gist. Depending on what was actually done, I would apologize and then be done with her. Considering it a learning experience, and don't feel too bad about it. People make mistakes all the time. Plus she's not as innocent as you think she is. She probably had just got done sucking 3 cocks in an alleyway somewhere 5 minutes prior her crying. Shit happens man.

I got the same feeling about the alleyway thing. Kinda gross.

Well what happened was I mad her crying, taking a joke too far. Then after we made up, she got a butt dial of me flirting and talking to other women. And yeahhh it wasn't pretty.

I know in typical pua terms you just wanna be alpha and play it off, but I think I really messed it up.



Do I continue to game as normal with the "angry" card against me? Or do I apologize again and tell how much she means? (This is a girl Ive done sexual stuff with, Im not sure if she thinks Im after her only for her looks)

apologize. Make it count. But don't apologize anymore after or go all out spilling your feelings. Just acknowledge you are a dumbass and move on to positive things. It will take a bit to get her and her friends to like you back however, it can be done. Just keep happy and positive.

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If you actually were a dick and you shouldn't have been, apologize. Don't talk about you almost crying. An actual apologetic gesture, if it's sincere, is the best thing you can do. It's hard to give you a detailed description since I don't know how you already apologized, what you've done, how much time has passed, the type of relationship, or anything else, but you should apologize nonetheless.

Next time think before you do some stupid shit.

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