Anyone have experience with this? I still want to keep my skills sharp but since I am getting pretty good with this stuff, it has gotten to the point where the some girls throw themselves at me. Doesn't happen all the time but there are a few times when it does and the temptation starts to linger its head...

Any advice?



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I still do it. Definitely keeps me sharp. (If anything, my game actually seems BETTER because I know I'm going home and getting laid regardless of what happens.)

I just don't go past making out because I have respect for my girlfriend. She understands what I do and doesn't consider it cheating because I'm honest about what happens.

it's hard to believe that your girlfriend just accepted your lifestyle...unless you have a really chill girlfriend. I would believe there would be some stumbling blocks before she sees it your way. The way I picture that conversation going down is my girlfriend logically stating that it is okay for her to flirt with other guys blah blah...I think you know where I am going...even though I believe she does it anyway...I mean who doesn't like attention and feeling important

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And how would you feel if your gf was doing the same? You're a creepo, seriously even making out with a chick is cheating.

Yeah... And honestly unless you know that cheating is something that the girl would end a relationship over, then telling her about it is going to do her no good whatsoever. She'll stay, and feel betrayed and broken and miserable, her reputation will be shot, and she could look for revenge in the similar vein (cheat on you, etc). Either don't cheat, or if you must, do it the old fashioned way and don't ever let her, or anyone that knows her find out... Your responsibility isn't to be honest with everyone about everything. Its to protect the people you love from being hurt. If your weakness causes you to act out in ways that could be hurtful, at least protect the people you love from having to deal with the pain from your actions. The fanaticism with "honesty" and "open communication" these days is actually nothing more than selfishness on the part of people to look for an outlet for their guilt.

That's your personal opinion. Honestly, I wouldn't care. She's kinda the "good girl" type so I really doubt she is... but if she kisses some other guy... Oh well?

Plus, she knows I'm a pick up coach. It comes with the territory. When she has my dick in her mouth she would be able to smell another girls pussy on there. That's cheating. Kissing really does no harm to anyone or damages someone emotionally... Sex on the other hand, can and that is considered cheating. I've made out with girls that I didn't know their name. Could barely even see what they looked like. Fuck, I've had nights where I was bouncing off girls like a damn pin ball, making out with random girls. Kissing is not cheating... But that's my opinion vs. yours. Its not "creepo" though... Relax.

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It seems you already have it well figured out. So long as boundaries are established and you understand what point you shouldn't/don't feel comfortable crossing, it's not an issue.

The girl I'm dating is openly a giant flirt when she's out drinking. Seeing as I'm under the legal drinking age, I have some issues getting out and doing it as openly as she does. But she is under no illusion that I don't flirt with girls at work/random occasions throughout the day. I'm an extremely social person and flirting is part of the social experience.

It is my opinion, however, that making out is a bit on the cheating side, especially if it happens often. This matters not, as your boundaries have been established and your girl at least pretends to not care. Do be careful, though, that it doesn't back fire in your face on down the road. Maybe she is only barely okay with the idea, to make you happy, and is waiting until the right day to have it back fire in your face.

I say, so long as she's okay with it, go for it! If it's only for the fun of it, what's it matter? If you're flirting just to flirt, and not to cheat, it's clearly not cheating. It's only for fun and not hurting anyone.

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BAHAHAHA! So true!

within the defined limits of a relationship anything is possible. If a couple agrees to a limit its all good.

My ex and i were polyamorous and had a live in GF...
it was pretty much no holds barred. Even had a schedule as to when who slept(actual sleeping) with whom.