Ive always had the same view on this, there are so many amazing girls even in one little town like near me, i can meet a 30 40 hot and different girls everyday for a month and not see the same one twice lol...
but why are we aloud the PERFECT girl, every girl is looking for the perfect guy you may never find her, but until your at a point you see someone and go, yea i could settle down with you why bother too, as long as you are getting your comfort and attraction on the ball, they will hang around and you can treat them as girlfriends if u want a nice meal take one, but make sure u mention u did something similar with another friend so she doesnt feel too like "maybe im his only girl now!!" lol, so yea ...
if you cant stamp on it and say yep THAT ONE...then keep looking till you can
if you need an excuse women THAT ALREADY WANT A RELATIONSHIP i might add if they dont its a DLV, but if they do and are that into you, saying ive been brushed aside like nothing before (NOT HURT YOUR A TOUGH GUY) but something along those lines they LOVE trying to prove they are not gunna do that lol...it normally result in getting head for me, cause that shows they love u more in a womens eyes i dunno lol