So I texted this girl just now, we already met once off of an online dating site and we got along well, I didn't really add it in a field report but we kissed that night, you can read about her hear: she-tested-me-vt158304.html and loss-of-attraction-after-day-1-vt158622.html

So this is one of my first day 3's with the same girl, maybe I'm over thinking things but I don't think I am. It seems like now she's not as fun/flity, giving straight answers, like when I called her she was SLIGHTLY more silent. It feels like something's on your her mind, idk what it could be. Maybe she's having buyers remorse? (We kissed and she felt almost convicted about it) so to me the answer is to build more comfort. IMPORTANT: She did tell me to understand that she'd be seeing other guys, I said I understand.

This was our text log:

Me: Guess who?!
Her: Hey Pink!
Me: How'd you know it was me? lol
Her: Lucky Guess
Me: You crossed my mind so I wanted to see if you we're alright
Her: Lol thanks. Im doing well. How are u
Me Amazing! Just enjoying life. What you been up to movie star (she's an actor)
Her Ha ha, just work and school. About to go to a coffee house at school
Me Get me a green tea! Hold the sugar lol
Her Lol sorry i think they just have coffee
Me So how's your schedule looking for Saturday.
Her Lookin good. I work until 2 and then im free!
Me Awesome!! We're gonna' have a blast.
Her Ha ha ok. Where am i meeting u again and what time?
Me *Gives Address tells her what time the movie starts*
Her Ok see you then!
Me: See you then my dear. Be good!
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END:
How's I do?
Is it bad that I texted last?

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"My dear" was lame. But texting last really isn't a big deal. She seems into you enough. I'd stick to "later" or something short and universal if anything in the future. Other than that, have fun Saturday.

Oh and movie dates are usually pretty bland. Might throw in another activity so you don't come off too opaque. No one liked the unoriginal, vanilla guy.

After okay see you then, you could have just signed off. She gave you the okay. No need to add anymore fluff talk.

Other than that. It isn't too bad. Good job!

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The reason why I'm doing a movie date is because she's an actress, and the weather has been odd here so I couldn't think of any good indoor activities - since we can't go outside. But your right I should have just stopped at the end.

But what do you guys think about the slight loss of actraction (not asking as many questions to mr or giving IOI's, not showing affection) like all of the stuff I talked about.

Btw I was thinking of telling her that I want her to feel comfortable with me and that I'd never ask her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with and let her know she can always tell me what's on her mind. Idk, it seems like something's up with her, should I ask her about it or just try and have fun?

IMPORTANT: on the second date how should I act? Demonstrate preselection, push pull, what?

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Nooo don't bring it up until you notice that it's time to calibrate. Just move things into the way you want it to go. Don't ask, just lead. She will get more comfortable.

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What do you mean by don't bring it up until it's time to calibrate?

But what do you guys think about the slight loss of actraction (not asking as many questions to mr or giving IOI's, not showing affection) like all of the stuff I talked about.

"Btw I was thinking of telling her that I want her to feel comfortable with me and that I'd never ask her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with and let her know she can always tell me what's on her mind. (I wanna say this in case she has buyers remorse or she's thinking something weird."

IMPORTANT: on the second date how should I act? Demonstrate preselection, push pull, what?"

Also can someone please comment on this portion of my question. Thanks so much for the help!!

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