Quick story. Met this girl at a party, hooked up with her a couple nights but she wasn't down for sex. We haven't really hung out sober besides breakfast, kind of a booty call scenario. We ended up having sex last Thursday, but I was really drunk, had super bad whiskey dick, and the sex was really terrible because I was so incoherent. Anyways, we've hooked up like 3 nights and she's probably gone down on me like 10 times but I haven't gone down on her at all, or made any effort to really make her cum.

Anyways, she called me out for not going down on her, said something along the lines of "whats the point of casual sex if you aren't going to try and get me off at all" then apologized a bunch for being bitchy. I acknowledged I hadn't really tried, and it sort of hit me that I was kind of being a dick, so I told her I would definitely try to get her off in the future. But the night was super awkward, and she was still visibly sort of annoyed in the morning and we hooked up a little and she seemed into it but then she said she had to go to class and shot me a super bitchy look before I left.

We had plans we made a while ago to hang out sober/for her to cook me dinner, but when I texted her she was being super cold and flaked on me. So I basically called her out and told her the only reason she was flaking was because the sex was super bad and I usually like going down on her girls but I like to get to know them first. She was still super cold, and I told her something along the lines of "I'll make you cum super hard next time I see you, and not just because you're damaging my ego" and she said she was "dying" (of laughter I'm presuming?" then didn't respond to my next text asking how her night was going.

Anyway to recover, or tips for how to reframe it? I think she just lost attraction because I supplicated her bitchy behavior. I just got back from a semester abroad in Europe, and she's one of the only hot, non-prude girls at my shitty liberal arts college so I don't have that notion of abundance I used to..

duh, you were supplicating. Good call on that. Freeze the interaction out for a few and come back to it later. You are giving this too much thought and work on other girls. Not all girls are prude. Some are just prude to you. Get on that!

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Yo,

So, I'm assuming that you want to continue pursuing because you are in a prude liberal arts school? (that made me laugh haha)

This is definitely a situation where you should just say FK it and move on...but I dont think its that simple when you are a college kid in need of vagina, you'll take what you can get if its slim pickings in the area.

So she's annoyed, not at you using her for sex, but for not making the sex mutually enjoyable. Either A: She's just over it all and she thinks its a waste of time or B: she wants you to make more effort.

Either way, you wont know until she tells you "seriously, its not working."

I'll make the assumption that you've lost enough value to her that she discontinues this thing, but if shes gonna give you another chance, just remember to manually attack the chocha.

sounds about right. oh and to complicate matters further, I also left my apartment key in her room. She claims she doesn't have it but I have a pretty distinct memory of it being there and not having it is super annoying. FML

I don't go down on girls unless I'm in an exclusive LTR with them, I don't want diseases. FWB's and FB's have always been extremely happy with me making them squirt with my fingers and hand, or my lovebone above my dick.

So in conclusion, you don't have to use your tongue, but seriously, don't be lazy bro.