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Why can't you bring her to your place? If you don't have roommates its even better, more privacy.
OK, well she's not my roommate, but she might as well be!
Anyway, there might be a million other situations where you don't want to bring her home.
It's good to have a game plan here whatever your situation.
Bonus would be to let her in on the secret/find out if she has her own secret, but this is getting off topic.
Some C&F or deadpan something/bust on her on it to see her reaction:
- need a sugar mommy, living in my car, just got out of prison
- if i take you home, the wife/gf will think it's the threesome is all about her/just want this to be all about you. Or escalate and just start walking her towards a random girl, then backoff as if you have a signal like she's not into her or she's going home with someone else.
- we/she's religious/can't use birth control, have 9 kids. she's climbing the walls for me but i'll go broke, or she's so stretched out that another would split her in half.
- i'm afraid you'll sneak out after you've had your way with me/need someone who'll be there for me
I think if it sounds like an excuse or in response it's going to send up a red flag.
Maybe if you bring it up first or even work it in earlier then it's already in her mind and can't turn into a dealbreaker at the end.