TLDR: FWB and new target at party. Close target without making FWB jealous?

So here's the deal. I regularly throw parties at my place on Fridays, college frat style. I have a few friends that can fill em up, we make some money with a cash bar/entry fee, DJs, lights, etc, off the chain basically. Read: a gigantic DHV for myself. A few months ago, I was particularly empty on FWBs who happened to be party regulars, and recruited my latest #1, an HB7. What she doesn't make up for in hotness, she has in basically every other department - treats me really well (and pays for shit), always dtf and fun, she's basically a good friend that I also fuck. Somehow, I've managed to dodge any "what are we" or "i like you" conversations so far, but I would be naive to believe should I start heavy kino/kclosing another girl in front of her that she'd be totally cool with it. Key Point = I Don't Want To Lose This One.

Aforementioned HB comes to basically every party lately and stays til the end. Even kinda follows me around. Well, here's the dilemma, last Friday she went home, and in her absence I hit it off a bit with this HB8/9. New girl was a bit drunk (and upset from becoming recently single) but some serious IOIs and kino. Telling me she remembered me from my last party, trying to tend bar with me, heavy flirting with me but not really anyone else. I could have easily k-closed later in the night but something about a crying girl, a little voice says "don't be that guy". Either way, 88% sure I've got a green light next party she comes to... likely this Friday.

Which brings my dilemma. Of course, HB7 will be there and likely at my side often. I think the question I'm asking should be pretty obvious.

They love to compete. Hit on everyone.

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Fair enough... normally do that anyways. But as I and my #1 haven't really "talked about it", it would probably be unwise to k-close the new girl without proper isolation right? I think the repercussions of my #1 watching me make out with another girl would be undesirable to say the least. At worst, I could always just n-close and escalate on a later meet, but I'd like to close asap obviously.

Like I said, don't want to lose or be a dick to my #1. She's treated me nothing shy of a king.

You shouldn't hookup with the new girl in front of the #1, but don't be shady either by trying to avoid the #1 to game the new girl. Just game the new girl at your next party, and if the #1 intrudes, just game them like any other 2 set. If you can't isolate the new girl without the #1 being up your ass then just n-close and like you said, escalate on another meet.

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Perfect jealousy plot line. Just have fun though. Of course don't escalate at the party if you are not experienced to handle shit tests on the spot. Instead just isolate whoever you want at the end of the night and go from there. It's a party, make sure everyone has fun.

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Good advice. I probably should have read it before the party but I kind of did it anyways. Well, my #1 had a (HB8) friend from out of town visiting, so she didn't want to stay over this time and leave her friend behind. There were several attempts (with assists) to get both to stay here, but to no avail. When I met this out of town friend originally, I was smashing my #1 in the room next to her and was definitely overheard. My aforementioned prospect from the last party, actually didn't show - her circle had other plans... and I sort of had a new prospect (also HB8/9), whom when I had her semi-isolated in a side room (#1 was in main room) I had her on my lap, some easy kino, was getting great IOIs throughout the night and running pretty solid game in conversation, but she ended up drinking too much, yarfed, and was escorted home by her friends. Blah. Yay drunk girls.

But definitely some good stuff mentioned. Real escalation, I should not do in line-of-sight at the very least, but at once point I sat on my couch where three girls were (I knew them all) and sat between two of them, talking/kino/flirting/etc, and within minutes my #1 comes over and basically attacks me - in a good way of course.

What I ought to start doing is a bit more number closing, instead of relying on others to re-invite my favorite targets/prospects.

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Well the problem with the fwb is that she is a level 2 clinger, anyways you have to teach the frame and set bounderies from the beginning, is very uncomfortable to game new target in front of fbw(at least for me it is).

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Very true. I haven't been very overt about this yet. She hasn't brought up any "I like you" or "what are we" stuff yet, but I've put a good amount of thought into that conversation for when it does arrive. As for the party, I only hit on/gamed other targets to a certain extent in front of her. However, as fate had it, nothing controversial happened this time, but it's sure to still be a factor in future parties - esp now considering I have TWO new targets to game... I'm almost hoping that soon she does bring up some kind of serious conversation so I can set the boundaries then. I can tell you for sure, she is falling for me, and does NOT want me to kiss or take home other girls.

She does not have to say it verbally, but she is doing it with actions dude, as i said is uncomfortable, give her the "talk" and clarify how the relationship between the 2 of you is, and what you expect from her etc... And give her example situation, in that example talk about your scenario and see how she feels, and then at that point decide if she is worth the drama or not.

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Thanks for the confirm skills, but shouldn't "bringing up the talk" be her job? Obviously she's getting pretty possessive, but conversation topics are always light and so is the girlfriend/boyfriend type stuff.

Another possibility is that she doesn't want to bring anything up, or really open up because she is afraid she'll scare me off. Either way, it's a situation I've been in before, and one I'm sure to repeat. I just don't see how bringing up "we should be seeing other people too" overly is going to do any good. I do mention in conversations, joking about things like group sex and sleeping with other people, but it's finicky.

^ oh shit you scare of her, you done dude! i guess you enjoy the drama. Dude you are the leader, be blunt unapologety tell her how you operate and what you expect from her... If not you are feeding psycho behavior and false expectations... Dude you need to learn how to manage your multiple women...

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