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On a monday, you can say something like "How was your weekend? Did you do anything fun?" If she says she did nothing but sit at home alone and play "SimCity"
Then you get some insight into if she has a bf and what she likes doing for fun. Also, just joke around about anything! Don't take it too serious. If you're having fun talking with her, she'll enjoy talking with you!
Practice chatting-up &/or flirting with lots of women. This help to make you more confident doing it. Lastly, don't put all your eggs in one basket. She's a girl you're working on, but you should always have other girls you're working on, so if one doesn't pan-out, it's never the end of the world.
Like the girl I waited too long for, even though it sucks that I'll probably never see her again, I am always working on several ladies, so it's not the end of the world for me that she didn't pan-out due to my mistake. I'll just learn from it and move-on the the next ones!
Thx for the reply bud. my problem is meeting girls... sometimes (rarely) when I feel good, I'll be in god mode and talking to chicks getting numbers going on dates and shit. but most of the time I just chickened out.... I hope i can get good soon before I leave college, because campus is a fking gold mine.