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PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:40 pm 
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Aye aye dating pirates,

I've had very weird situation with my friend the ther day. First what exactly happened and some details to how it is between us below.

Basically I ended up with a fairly good friend of mine at my place. We've known eachother for years, but never really went past friend zone (both 24). She's attractive so after some wine and splif my toughts went the usual direction. You know what I mean. We watched a movie, no close ups and when she decided to go to sleep she rushed into my bed (i have 2 bedrooms, 1 for guests where she has slept a few times already) and stated she's sleeping there. Well I said it's my fucking bed and landed in it like a baws. She took off and went to the other room not happy at all. After a while she came back saying she can't sleep there because it's too cold. Brought her own bedding and landed next to me. So I figured there could only be one reason for coming back over. I her her hair smells nice, she smiled and said thanks, then she gently put her ass next to my johnson and obviously i got turned on instantly. Then something weird happened, something I haven't experienced before. She took off, went to the bathroom, after that she came back took the bedding, said "I can't fall asleep here neither" and went back to the other room. BAM. No idea what happened there, usually in those situations it means the girl is on and she wants something. I can't get my head around it. I wouldn't touch her when she came over, must admit I hesitated because I didn't want to freak her out immediately. She didn't give me much time to act anyway and bailed off when it barely started being intimate.

Now you need a bigger picture of what our relationship looks like.

We're long time friends, used to go to the same school, have lots of common friends etc. I am and always was higher value then her, because of my good job position, looks, money and stuff. Few years ago after my long time GF dumped me (im glad that happend from the perspective) I've tried to hit on her. We used to go places together, cinema, camping etc but never got close or intimate. She remained distanced to me, and after some said we would better remain friends because she took it further with a friend (my mate btw) and it didn't end up well. They would avoid eachother and stuff. Before that i've never seen anyne daiting her, and she wouldn't fuck anyone that I knew of. Well she wanted to remain friend zone and i didn't care too much. So contact slowed down and since then we rarely see eachother few times a year. Sometimes she's flirtly, but it seems like there is no intention to bing it further. I assumed she was using me to give her a lift or just be a company going to the movies or stuff (so stupid I know lol).

So back to the topic, did she really came by just because it was cold or whatever in the other room (which it wasn't)? I'm fairly sure not. I fucked up. But how? I'm single SPAM so I could even consider real relationship. I know I didn't go balistic with kino and usuall stuff. Didn't want to play that va banque, going slow and building the sexual tension always worked before. What's so diffrent.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 5:10 pm 
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Hey mate.. I'll start off with a story then happened with me and then I'll tell you what you could have done better.. Last year I came back home for holidays and get in contact with a lot of my friends from high school. One of them was a very close friend of mine.. We talked a lot and many times we end up flirting, but she has always been with my best friend so I never took a move on her.. She kept things simple! Anyway, when I was on holiday she had already broken up with my friend and one time she texted me at night asking if i want to go with her to the beach the next day.. We were sitting in the pool.. I gamed her for my own entertainment really.. Some kino touch, few drinks( not enough to get us tipsy), palm reading.. She eventually told me I have changed a lot and she likes the new me.. We were standing next to the pool and stood behind me and started massaging me back.. After that we just went to a corner in the pool and started talking there.. she continued to massage me and all of a sudden she asks me to do the same for her.. So I started massaging her back, and I noticed her eyes were closed and she was feeling something nice.. Later She continued touching me and whispering stuff in my ears..

Then saying don't get turned on now and laughed it off.. Her body was oily as fuck and she just continued hugging me in the pool, and i played it off.. Didn't take any move yet.. Well if you consider kino a move yeah i did a lot naturally.. Later i just got the worst hard on ever.. Honestly, I just wanted to fuck the shit out of her.. I think she noticed then, and asked me to go back to the benches and lay there.. As we were walking in the pool to get off, I knew I'm fucked! I hope my boner goes away soon!! LOL.. So she was walking in front of me, and for no reason she just pulled her leg up and touched my boner.. Then she turned around and looked me deep in the eyes and smiled then turned her face.. It was one of the most awkward situations of my life.. Not because I had the boner, but because I had a boner with a girl we are supposed to be really good friends, almost siblings.. Later we got back in the pool and the same story happened, and she continued to KINO me LOL! I leaned in to kiss her but she rejected me.. It was really awkward then but it didn't matter really we continued talking.. Few minutes later, she said fuck it and kissed me, and later she jerked me off in the showers.. Anyway, for 2 weeks or so we didn't talk.. Before I left back for my studies, I called saying I want to see after I left.. We talked about what happened and we decided it was just a one time thing.. We are in good relation now and we never talked about..

Anyway, back to you.. If there is no KINO to begin with.. No matter how good your game is once it comes to sex, it will just be weird.. KINO escalation is your best way to go.. Always start off with soft kino and add the pressure of that a bit.. Human need kino just like animals do.. It's part of the human nature.. So you should have just hugged her while watching a movie and saying it's uncomfortable to sit next to someone and not hug them when watching a movie.. You can do a lot of natural kino through the night.. Do palm reading for example.. This is perfect to hold a girls hand.. Once she got in to your bed, you could have said I move a lot during the night so my hand might touch ur tits few times by mistake and laugh! Or be careful I normally wake up with the weirdest boner in the morning.. Keeping it sexual always.. Kino and sexual talk!!

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 7:40 pm 
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Yes, you should do some more kino at the beginning phase.

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